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PangeLingua
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10 Oct 2010, 6:36 pm

Wow, you all are able to go clubbing. :? I can barely handle ten minutes in a grocery store.



nostromo
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10 Oct 2010, 6:40 pm

Corp900 wrote:
I was out for a night on the town, hit up the club scene with a few childhood friends, just looking around at all the people socializing like there was no tomarrow, so much hapiness they had, so much social power, i gave up and give up, I cant compare, putting together words and sentences and body language to a stranger is harder then calculus to me.

Took me years to work that stuff out and be at ease in social situations. I still find myself seeking out someone to talk to and sticking with them, rather than talking to different people, so I have to remind myself to move around.
It's impossible for me to socialise if I am stressed..and since socialising can be stressful we can end up in a Catch-22.
Practise is the only solution I guess..or opting out.