samtoo wrote:
Aye, same old, same old.
Basically, yes, you guessed it - ex girlfriend of six months ago - she just won't bloody talk any more. I can't get a word in that registers any more. It's terribly frustrating that she won't respond even if I almost spend an entire night trying to call, and if I send the most depressed messages to her, via phone or a website.
If she could just talk at least once in a while it might be good, but she just won't.
I find it really difficult to adapt to this terribly harsh situation.
My attempts to talk are becoming less frequent, but why must someone cut contact entirely?
I'm bored, frustrated, and so often balancing a fine line between relatively content and utterly ill.
I know heartbreak is hell, I've lived through it 3 times. The worst thing you can do is ring her all night, or send her messages. The reason she is't replying is because she wants you to let her go.
It's called going cold turkey, and I've done that to a guy before not because I was cold but because I did not want to waste his life obsessing when it was fruitless.
It does pass. And sometimes you have to cut people.
Just try the following.
Don't text her, don't call her. Leave her unblocked on MSN, but don't talk to her. Eventually as other things take over your life it will matter less and less. One day the day will come where you won't care if she is not on MSN. It might take 2 years, but it will happen.
It took me 2 years to delete a guy who ditched me off MSN, but I did it eventually, and now I don't give a crap about him or his life at all, and i'm surprised I ever liked him.
To get through this, you must do this. To hold onto a fruitless obsession is not good for you in the long run. It's like a long time disease which takes you over in the end.
Good luck, and take care.