Look for the "View your posts" link on the Main index page of the forum. Click it. It's a liste of threads you've posted in. Ones marked new have new posts since you last visited.
That's how I do it. I prefer that to the email notices. Choose whichever method works for you.
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not aspie, not NT, somewhere in between
Aspie Quiz: 110 Aspie, 103 Neurotypical.
Used to be more autistic than I am now.