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26 Dec 2010, 5:03 pm

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I need sex and a relationship far more than they do, but I'm so scared to go and get it.


I don't even know where to begin with.
Who put you in charge of other peoples needs?

And as i can see, you seem to be rather interested only in the sex part....go get a hooker or escort if you want sex that badly.



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26 Dec 2010, 6:41 pm

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I've been depressed since this past Friday night, when I saw this one couple doing some massive PDAs at work. Why the hell must I be reminded of what I don't have?

On and off I felt like I wanted to cry for the past couple of days. I need sex and a relationship far more than they do, but I'm so scared to go and get it. What does it take to get the happiness I need?


First off, it's not easy to get a girlfriend. And even harder to keep one. It takes a lot of work on both parts so you need to be ready for that. Second, why don't you actually try and put yourself out there to girls you are interested in? Yes I know it's incredibly hard, and can make you anxious/scared to the point of nausea but girls like it when a guy shows initiative so you kind of just have to force yourself to do it.

And also 3rd, not trying to sound rude but why do you say that you need sex and a relationship more than other people do? I mean it sounds kind of conceited. Just because you have a disability or depression doesn't just automatically mean you should get whatever you want including a girlfriend. Also having a girlfriend doesn't automatically make everything better. Sure it feels great to have one and you might be a lot happier. But it's also a lot of work to keep a good relationship going no matter how well you two click. So you can't just think that having a girlfriend will fix all of life's problems.



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27 Dec 2010, 2:16 am

Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I've been depressed since this past Friday night, when I saw this one couple doing some massive PDAs at work. Why the hell must I be reminded of what I don't have?

On and off I felt like I wanted to cry for the past couple of days. I need sex and a relationship far more than they do, but I'm so scared to go and get it. What does it take to get the happiness I need?


1. Get a GFE escort.

2. I actually pity a lot of couples. When I look at a married couple, I think that "poor schlub probably has a mortgage on a house he doesn't really want and a lot of s**t that he just doesn't need or want".



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27 Dec 2010, 6:35 am

You can be scared, but eventually there's a point where you just have to take the risk and go for it. It can turn out bad or good but it's always best to at least try. I hope you find what you're looking for soon. :D



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05 Jan 2011, 3:19 am

Xenu wrote:
Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I've been depressed since this past Friday night, when I saw this one couple doing some massive PDAs at work. Why the hell must I be reminded of what I don't have?

On and off I felt like I wanted to cry for the past couple of days. I need sex and a relationship far more than they do, but I'm so scared to go and get it. What does it take to get the happiness I need?


First off, it's not easy to get a girlfriend. And even harder to keep one. It takes a lot of work on both parts so you need to be ready for that. Second, why don't you actually try and put yourself out there to girls you are interested in? Yes I know it's incredibly hard, and can make you anxious/scared to the point of nausea but girls like it when a guy shows initiative so you kind of just have to force yourself to do it.

And also 3rd, not trying to sound rude but why do you say that you need sex and a relationship more than other people do? I mean it sounds kind of conceited. Just because you have a disability or depression doesn't just automatically mean you should get whatever you want including a girlfriend. Also having a girlfriend doesn't automatically make everything better. Sure it feels great to have one and you might be a lot happier. But it's also a lot of work to keep a good relationship going no matter how well you two click. So you can't just think that having a girlfriend will fix all of life's problems.


Where I live is more of a party location during the summer months (Less so the rest of the year), and during the rest of the year things are pretty slow. I've never been what you'd call a partier. I fill my life with anime, books (Mostly manga and various nonfiction stuff), video games, and music that nobody around here has heard of. And I don't drink. As for church, well, I'm an outspoken, dyed-in-the-wool atheist and wouldn't appreciate someone trying to convert me.



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05 Jan 2011, 3:21 am

I got to first and second base at an anime convention once (with 2 different girls)...don't go blaming anime for lack of women lol



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05 Jan 2011, 3:29 am

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I got to first and second base at an anime convention once (with 2 different girls)...don't go blaming anime for lack of women lol


Granted, it's more popular now than it was 15 or 20 years ago, but you're talking to someone who's been a fan for 14 years with hundreds of TV series, movies, and OVAs under his belt. 180 of which I only watched three years ago. But I often hide it unless it comes up in a conversation, due to the lingering stigma of all anime being either kiddie stuff or violent tentacle rape porn. As for cons, the only ones we have around here are in Baltimore, D.C., and Philadelphia.

Also, I've tried asking friends at work to help find me some ladies, but they keep kicking up dirt.



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05 Jan 2011, 3:33 am

well it might not help your view is insane and creepy, my point is, you have something that can introduce you to many, many people and aren't taking advantage of it
granted things won't just fall in your lap, you actually have to do something and not just rely on others

oh and never act like you think you know something about me, what if I am a bigger anime fan then you? you don't know
personally I don't care how many you've watched, anime isn't that bad
hell I have stranger hobbies



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05 Jan 2011, 3:43 am

Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I need sex and a relationship far more than they do

Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I need sex and a relationship far more than they do

Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I need sex and a relationship far more than they do

Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I need sex and a relationship far more than they do

Weiss_Yohji wrote:
I need sex and a relationship far more than they do




WHAT THE HEEEELLLL>???



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05 Jan 2011, 3:48 am

yes, that