No don't worry I don't have any, but what I mean is why is it whenever someone (who's not a family member) has rows (and I mean big ones, proper big ones, not just disagreements) or issues (again I mean proper big ones) with their family is it that they can dis their family but not you, even if it is making them upset?
I know that there is a bond with regards family's that often keeps them together, but if say your dad is a total jerk (and I mean a really evil devil sporn type) don't the rest of them family get rid of him with whatever means open to them or let some outside party deal with it?
Although I've always had good relations with my family, I think that if they ever turned on me I'd make their lives hell as they'd have been evil!
Happily I very much doubt I'll ever have to do that kind of thing but if I know someone (eg a friend) who's having major issues with their family's I prefer to just go in all guns blasing and if they don't like it I cut them out of my life for being ungrateful!! !!
I know that many younger people like to win their parents approval and often find it hard to see their faults, but if it is the parents love that they want then all I have to do is try and give them a good (legal) scare and they should act in a more loving manner towards them not mater how much they may despise their children.
It may not be as good as having them love their kids for real, but it's better than nothing...
Failing that I make sure that the cops put them behind bars and that they are unable to see their offspring again.
Goodbye Till Next Time
P.S. One more thing, although I'm yet to carry this kind of thing out I was only giving a rough outline of the kind of plan(s) that I have in mind for just such an occasion
20 Jan 2011, 9:33 am
