ericmc783 wrote:
grrrrrrrr. i have done much searching online for support groups relating to AS (ones that actually meet in real life, not on a website). while i have found many AS related support groups, pretty much all of them dealt with support for parents of a child with AS, or siblings of an AS child. its as if there is no such thing in the world as a support group for adults who actually HAVE AS.
Agree strongly. Irritates me so much that I'm considered "too old" and "too functional" for existing supports-oh please ! Wasn't dx'd AS until in my 30's-before that a variety of other labels were applied. It's very frustrating. Neither willing nor able to travel hours away from home in order to find an "appropriate" group.
Do I have to BECOME a parent, just to find a proper group ? I'm joking, but see my point ?
I shouldn't have to be inaccurate/dishonest/untrue to myself (by procreating when that's NOT my wish, or committing crimes, or exaggerating my difficulties) in order to meet criteria for needing help. I meet the Asperger's criteria (according to my counselors) & I happen to be an adult-is that so rare ? I like where I live, but apparently there aren't enough of "us" nearby...
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