I can talk to anyone socially, yet I have no friends. WHY???

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A small group of elite, super rich people control this world through hierarchical system, power structure. The world is a lie, they keep constantly feeding you this lie, mostly by using media, a subtle "brainwash" to keep you interested in things that do not really matter at all just to keep you from thinking too much as questioning citizen would be the end of the oppression and tyranny. It's a whole new world once you go look into all the stuff that is related to NWO, The Matrix is a good movie to depict what one goes through when "wakes up" to see the "real" world. of course, it's very hard to know what's real after all. we are all products of our genes and environment, those are what shape us. nobody is born racist, nobody is born dollar chaser. When you wake up to realize that not all your thoughts and ideas are yours, even though you may think you came up with them yourself, that's only the beginning of the journey. I'm in a process of reviewing my thoughts and ways of thinking, to see which ones are really mine and which arent, which are natural, which are implemented and to what purpose. Why Im saying this? if you go down the rabbit hole and you go down deep enough. you will reach a point where you simply want to deny it all, dont want to believe any of it. its a big chunk to swallow anyway. The material you're going trough is just so depressing that if you choose to accept it as possibility or even reality, you might get depressed.

this is what u have to wake up from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consensus_reality

2 documentaries that are going to scratch the surface of the whole ponzi scheme I suggest are "Who Killed The Electric Car?" and "Inside Job".
they dont even go into all that "conspiracy stuff", but will give you a general idea of how things are handled on this planet.

I think if you're socially blind, it makes it very hard to make friends, because you have a difficult time knowing how to socialize/"act" properly. If you're socially anxious like myself, you are aware of social stuff enough to cause problems like SAD but that understanding is enough to allow you to have friends. But most of my friends were anxious/introverts/AS like me. Having an interest that is popular is also really helpful.

What's the hierarchy of this New World Order going to be like, ya think?
My money's on
Reptilians
Jews
Illuminati

hard to say, theres so much misinformation and so forth.

Elite itself is divided into different sections each having their own agenda, while they may all sit at the same table act as allies. Who knows, maybe its all true?
We might have reptilians in UK, they have huge covert influence to their colonies. While Rockefeller & Co control America, which Israel is in charge of.
So basically, Illuminati in control, within illuminati we have jews and reptilians. but yeah, Illuminati is just an alliance of some of the elite, not all are part of it.

I have no idea, but I can definitely sympathize. I can socialize fine, in one-on-one situations. People seem to get along with me. My psychiatrist says that my personality is not unpleasant. I deal with people with similar interests. For some reason, I'm always left out. They do things together. They always ignore me. I try to get them to do things, but they are always busy. All I can think is that there is something subtle that I'm not doing that says that I want to be friends. Either that, or I'm just really, really boring, but I see some really boring people who still have friends.

Only thing I can think of is just that you're coming on too strong. Try toning it down a notch. People can get put off if you come on too strong, or if you're extremely reluctant. Either extreme is bad.

If you have anyone close to you, see if you can't get some feedback from them. Talk to your parents or anyone that's known you for a long time. Ask them how you come across to them, what they think of you, etc. They'd be better able to help you pinpoint where you might be going wrong.

You've summarized what I consider to be the cruel viperblade of AS in those of us who are more on the "mild" side of the spectrum.

Social politeness will encourage people to be nice to you in social situations, but being nice to someone doesn't mean you have to be their friend.

Friends "bond" over some innate connection that I really can't describe except to say it happens on a very subtle...subconscious level. People with AS can experience this, but it's very rare. People more "in touch" with the NT crowd are able to connect on more levels than we can. Granted, they might have just as few "true friends" as we do, but they enjoy much more "companionship" because groups readily accept them.

AS impacts us in that we don't connect normally on those subtle subconscious levels, and there really is no way to fake those things. By being better at socializing, we might meet people who will tolerate us enough to get to like us in an intellectual way and then override their subconscious social instincts to be our friends, but that outcome takes work on our part.

Before I knew I had autism I used to do this and it never worked. I'd end up just staring at my glass cuz theres nothing else worth looking at and I drink real fast cuz I've nothing better to do and it wouldn't be long before the bartender started treating my like some kind of troublemaker. Like the OP I'm supposedly good looking, have a decent sense of humour and can talk but I cant socialise for s**t. I make friends easily though and heres what I've observed. If I respect someone its just a matter of time before I befriend them. If I don't respect them then they don't respect me and we have nothing to do with each other. When I respect someone who I see regularly I start visualising myself as being their friend and hanging around with them and always without fail I'll become friends with them and the opportunity to hang around with them will arise. I think thats what its all about. You need to visualising yourself hanging around with someone you like and that sends the message to your brain that your friends with this person and from then on it'll show in your body language and the person will pick up on that and see you as a friend.