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what is wrong with the site? i go away for a few weeks and i come back and it seems to be all screwed up, i'm wondering if i'm a bad omen or something.

oh and this is jetfox by the way, please don't ban me again. i've got no where else to talk about aspergers and what not. that was a dumb decision i made, life has been really rough on me the last few months.

it is getting better now, and i might need to post here again, even if i get ignored or get nothing but flak. because we finally figured out why i have these chronic stomach pains, it has a hard to pronounce word that could end with my death if untreated.

edit: do you guys hate me or something? what did i ever do to you? whatever it was i know it was not that bad. this is the first time i've come on this place and the site is all messed up on my end.

i came back because i was concerned that something bad happened to WP, but i can see you guys have a blind hatred of me for no reason i can see. jee thanks, i have a a boatload of problems and suddenly the only place i was able to talk on now has an anti jetfox disease. if i die soon from iron orverdose disease i'll curse you on my deathbed.

i want a reason for this crap. you guys were like family to me, WP was my sanctuary. get the chip off your shoulder.

Your previous account Jetfox was closed at your own request: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp3577480 ... t=#3577480

I am sorry you appear to be having problems of some sort. Unfortunately I have no idea what the rest of your post is about, who it is aimed at or what you expect (someone?) to do?

i was getting ignored and yes i know i wanted to be banned, and then i wanted to come back because i needed someone to talk to. but the way i see it you guys don't seem to be them anymore.

my edit was aimed at the forum in general, when i came here at first wp felt like my family, a group of people i could finally trust online, but seeing as i'm still ignored, i'm wondering who i can trust.

i went to another forum but i swear they are all weird over there, it was the first time i've had one of my own tell me to get theropy. and lately i'm starting to lose sight of myself, i'm back to wondering what is wrong with me. i think my Dx was false, i feel alienated around the people i once thought were family.

Honestly I don't really know you and didn't even notice you until this year. Lot of people have joined here over the years so it may be harder to notice others, especially if they don't have that many posts. I don't ignore anyone here unless I have a problem with them.


I am not sure how long you had been gone until you started posting again. I am not sure if you posted here in late 2006 or in 2007-2010 because I didn't notice you until this year when you complained about your problems here. Those sort of things catch my attention and I am more likely to remember the user and recognize them.


Not all aspies will be able to get along with other aspies. What was this other forum you're talking about? Another aspie one?

The place was bound to change if you left for two or three years. That kinda thing isn't exclusive to WP though, it happens on every forum.
People leave, and new people come and take their place, changing the whole dynamic of the forum.

There's nothing much you can do other than re-adjust to the "new" WP.

Who are you talking to?

I don't see any evidence of blind hatred, or chips on shoulders.

I'm sorry you are feeling so upset and frustrated. On the internet, everyone is anonymous; I'm not sure why you would expect to feel particularly connected, although hopefully you will be able to feel accepted. I know a few people find deeper connections despite the natural hurdles of being on the internet, but I think those are more instances of people transcending the limitations of the medium, than something that should be expected to happen.

The site goes through natural ebbs and flows and changes in membership, functionality, and tone. That is part of life on the internet; names and avatars and tone are in constant flux. Even here, despite the site's efforts to maintain consistency for it's AS members. We can't really make life run a different course than it naturally does.

If you have problems, report them to the moderators, and they will see what they can do to help. Not all situations fall within their powers, of course, but if you are specific, at least there is a chance of correction.

i was jetfox before i almost always had a xemnas avatar, my last one was harkness only a modded version with longer hair.

when i had first joined this site i posted quite a bit, and then my friend told me about wow and i became addicted really badly. if i hadn't found fallout 3 i'm not sure what would have happened, i never felt so overpowered by anything. but i stopped posting for about a year, and my weight dropped, i was getting yelled at by my doctors and my mom [i'm not sure which is worse].

and then i came back after kicking the addiction and i started getting chronic stomach pain that didn't end and even music made me miserable which doesn't happen alot.

but when i came back no one seemed to get that i was miserable, and my pain was making me hate everything, and making me angry for no reason. i was going through meltdowns left and right wondering when my pain would end.

and now i may have a fatal illness, it's a big word i can't pronounce, but it has to do with how the body handles iron.

there were a few people that seemed like they had nothing better to do then yell at me. all i did that one time was say my phone is an env, and someone else drilled me through the ground for no reason. it's a damn cellphone it's not important. i don't care about having a smart phone i use it about 6 times a year. talk about a dang chip, i mean it was a phone.

i have a hard time adjusting to change as is.

yeah aspies for freedom, bunch of blind fools who believe they have no illness. and love to verbally rape people who talk about fantasy and obsessions with game characters, it's a place i can't survive in, if i had to go an entire day without dwelling in the fantasy, i would be in an asylum being drugged. if you also discourage, fantasy then i can't survive here either.

but i've been here since Nov 13, 2005 [copied and pasted from my old account].

i'm not expecting to get along with every but some would be nice, back then though i was quick to trust and it was foolish. now i don't trust anyone, because i just getting burned when i do.

well my avatar was pretty consistant or well i had the same character for 5 years straight.

but i doubt i could use this account, though it's on my yahoo email, and i hardly ever check it, or use it. unless i can put it in my live mail program, but if i lost my home here i won't bother.

haemochromatosis?

Did you TELL anyone that? People aren't mind readers, you know. And even when you do tell, it can be difficult for the posters to remember who had what problem until they've posted a lot with that person, and then new people join who don't know ... sometimes it helps to just say, "sorry for being so angry but I'm in a lot of pain" or "or sorry for being so angry but I've had a lot of meltdowns." The moment you do, most of the posters will be able to relate and cut you some slack. Until they forget, at least

to lene: yeah that one, i couldn't remember how to spell it, it's not confirmed but it's the only thing that makes sense. because i used to eat alot of iron rich foods in large amounts, like rice which is 15% iron for 1\2 cup and i eat alot more then that my normal rice bowl probably had 70% or 80% iron in it. cheese stops iron from being absorbed, but once i stopped eating cheese rice it all went to hell.

i did talk about being miserable, but no one seemed to listen or care. i'm not sure what i should do where i can go, i don't have a haven, and being on this low iron diet is not fun.

When you say it's not confirmed, who suggested that you had it? Have you had tests done?



You have the Haven as much as the rest of us, also the Health&Fitness forum frequently has threads on diet and food.

no tests but me and my mom have been going in circles trying to solve my problem. my mom found it net surfing i guess. to much iron can lead to alot of things things that have been happening to me, the skin discoloration, i have that on my arms docters to told me it was from water dripping off my watch after a shower, but how is on my other arm as well.

depression, i got that well before my cat died, it seemed odd to me at the time, body aches, i honestly was wondering if it was my bed. pms does not effect me like most females, i've seen it portrayed as a berserk mode of sorts on devaint art, i was wondering where his idea came from. that's because it releases iron and makes me feel better, i'm always in alot better mood after going through pms.

severe constipation, and severe stomach pain, my stomach just hurts all the damn time, i don't even have to be constipated to be in pain, and i notice the more iron rich foods i ate the more miserable i got, now on this low iron diet my pain is finally under my control.

also i got an mri back a few years ago, and they found something on my liver, they said it was like varicose veins or something. and then they wrote it off, because they weren't looking for problems with my liver, they just happened to find it. and the liver is what this disease starts in or comes from.

i'm not saying i have it, but i can't just say everything is just random chance. magnesium citrate is the only thing that helps with my constipation now, i take it in liquid form about an ounce a day, which is about 2,000 or so mgs. sometimes i take 2 ounces along with a cup of coffee or two.

haven just means a sanctuary in this case, and i was refering to the whole site, i'm saying more or less if you hate me now i have no place here, but i didn't want to be on bad terms here, because i feel hated.

If you're worried, your doctor can do a simple blood test to rule it out. Symptoms alone are often not reliable


If they said it was nothing, it probably wasn't anything dangerous One of the problems with MRIs is they show up a lot of little abnormalities which aren't actually harmful to the patient.


I'd mention the supplements you're taking too- they might be able to offer you something more effective in the long term.



I doubt anyone hates you. They most likely don't remember you but don't take it personally; it's a huge site. If I leave for a week, hardly anyone recognises me when I come back! Take it that you're welcome and just post away

well i'm glad i'm not hated, i was worried though because when i left i wasn't exactly nice about it.

i'm suppose to get a blood test this Wednesday, ironicly my bro just gave me a cold or more like i caught it off of him.

my mri may be nothing but my doctor still said to stay away from pain meds or any blood thinners.

i've gone through so many different things for my constipation i lost count, and the doctor that did my colonoscopy [can't spell] told me to use the same stuff i am taking now. and at this point i'm not going to expiriment any more, i'm already super paranoid as is.

Interesting use of word, considering.