28 May 2011, 9:47 pm
If it isn't one issue it's another!
Loud when I talk:Constantly told to SHH! since I'm being loud. (Usually when I'm excited over something I'm louder.)
Meltdowns: Had a big one today was all emotional and started crying sadly families view is OMG! you're an adult you're crying over (to them something small/no big deal) but to me it pushed me over the edge!
Saying the wrong thing: Rudeness or such as today telling mom "You need to clean your closet." Her response: DON'T TELL ME WHAT I HAVE TO DO!! !! ! (That upset me to tears.) 
I'm clumsy and trip so motor issues. I have to watch where I walk constantly!! My legs/feet are always twisting around such as that hole in the dirt I step into or that hose I trip/almost trip over!! !! !
Sadly keeping track of ALL OF THIS! Is too time consuming on my brain!! !! !! Why can I get straight A's in College! Have PhD DISSERTATION IDEAS, I am wanting to do research! Yet have issues with basic stuff that no one else I know has a problem with!! !! ! I've ran into 2 Elementary school friends both have a boyfriend and/or husband and FOR GOD SAKE I'VE NEVER DATED/KISSED A GUY OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT!! !! !
Can anyone relate???
28 May 2011, 10:23 pm
Yeah, I can definitely relate! People are always shushing me in restaurants, and I have issues with people not understanding when I have a meltdown. I react in the exact same way - I cry - and people get all uncomfortable and say "stop crying" which doesn't help at all! 
I am also very clumsy, stumbling around, misplacing things, falling down. So you aren't alone! It is hard!
28 May 2011, 10:34 pm
Thnaks Merit! 
29 May 2011, 2:01 am
Yes. I talk loud but people let me know my voice is loud. They don't tell me "shhh"
My parents have gotten mad at me for my meltdowns and I had one like last month or two months ago and my husband acted like I did it on purpose because he said I was an adult and our baby comes first like as if I am in control of my meltdowns. 
Saying the wrong things, it's your family with the problem. I don't see how telling someone to clean their closet is a problem. I think your mother may have interpreted it as you telling her to clean it than commenting. But mine never treated me that way.
29 May 2011, 7:35 am
