My boyfriend's mom is a moron

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OK, not quite a moron but it's certainly difficult not to call her one. Months ago she was yelling and screaming at me and asked me if I thought she was stupid and I replied with a very honest YES, basically. She really wanted to hold that against me while she also wants to hold my asperger's against me whilst telling me not to use it as an excuse.

I will LIKELY never have to speak to her again and he's a grown man so he doesn't have any problems with that. He's been writing lately and he showed me some works she made revisions to, and in one bit he said something about people who were incapable of loving and she wrote in parenthesis "for example dating someone with aschbergers"

I wanted to throw up when I read it. She, at once, calls me capable of malice and spite and yet incapable of love.

It's hard not to mention she's a dumbass to him but I obviously won't be doing that... just... had to get this out.

Buy a pepper spray. Next time you bump into her she's toast.

Somehow the title of this thread makes me laugh.

One of the things you certainly don't want to happen is conflicts when it comes to a relationship and the fact you honestly told her that she is stupid would obviously make her have that anger right there and if anyone was to say that to me, I'd probably most likely feel the same but then again, I can't really say too much about that... It shouldn't matter what she says at the end of the day, if you and your boyfriend are happy with each other then what other people say to you (even about the relationship) shouldn't matter to you.

You could try apologising to her, it might make things easier for you and your boyfriends mum, hopefully that's something?

In general...

Mom > gf.


Just keep that in mind.