Male virgins and women with complex PTSD

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23 Jun 2011, 3:13 am

What's up with the gender differences in AS people being so extreme? A guy doesn't know how to approach a woman and a woman doesn't know when a guy is sexually manipulating her. Houston we have a problem. I am writing an article on this and would like to get opinions from people here.

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23 Jun 2011, 3:17 am

You may get more of a response if you were more specific.

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23 Jun 2011, 3:55 am

an uncomfortable man tends to make a woman feel uncomfortable, an uncomfortable woman sends the man the message that is unattractive as uncomfortableness = unattractive. the uncomfortable man retreats into uncomfortable-reinforcing ways only to prematurely re-emerge at the influence of others or self-motivation and repeat the cycle.

I would love specifics though.

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23 Jun 2011, 4:48 am

TheHaywire wrote:

Being a girl means always having something a guy wants but the guy has to have a degree of social status or "alpha traits" to get the girl interested.

AS Men have traits that are construed as weakness or lack of social status, weakness is unattractive.

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23 Jun 2011, 5:16 am

Whats PTSD mean?

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23 Jun 2011, 5:57 am

KenM wrote:

Whats PTSD mean?

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

I might comment on this post latter 1ce I have a better understanding that this thread is supposed to be about

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23 Jun 2011, 4:41 pm

That reads as a string of non sequiturs.

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24 Jun 2011, 1:52 am

I have no idea how to respond.
How you characterized my sex is something I absolutely cannot relate to,
and the one for men seems to be made-up as well.

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24 Jun 2011, 11:59 am

Only thing I can think is the PTSD should probably get some counseling before dating anyone let alone someone with AS.

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25 Jun 2011, 3:14 am

I think the most a girl can do is to render herself immune to sexual manipulation; set herself a solid principle that she will only have sex with a guy after she feels deep enough emotional trust for the guy, or after months when things turn into a committed relationship. Remain stubborn to these principles and let them be known early on, do not waver, do not surrender no matter how much you're scared of them rejecting you. If the guy has a problem with said principles he's obviously the wrong type of guy for them. Either way, I think the socially awkward virginal guy will have the same problem as the girl deciphering cues, so maybe he will appreciate knowing where he stands early on.

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29 Jun 2011, 12:53 am

TheHaywire wrote:

What's the connect between male virgins and women with PTSD?

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