ASimpson wrote:
I really wasn't asking for advice on my work situation.
I appreciate it, but that's not what I'm asking help for.
Lene is right here. You cannot separate your relationship and your work situation because the two things are already mixed up. Working with your husband/boyfriend is very difficult. You have to set limits. You cannot be her girlfriend at work (feel bad because the way he treates you there), or his employee at home. When my husband and I started working together we had HUGE fights because of that. He thought I should be his girlfriend all the time and that I was too hard at him, and translated that to our personal relationship. It is also hard to be togethet all the time (24/7). With time things got better (I learned not to treat him that hard and he learned not to be so sensitive), but it takes time and some people just cannot handle it. If it is affecting your relationship and you really love him you should consider the option of getting anothet job and try to save your relationship.