My girlfriend thinks she might be pregnant?

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Why are you ignoring her texts?
If you still like her, why are you not replying and attempting to fix this situation?
You will find situations in every relationship where you hit a problem, and maybe things seem like they have crashed down around you, but you have to learn to overcome these things by communicating.
If she is texting you, she obviously still cares, and wants to fix things, and to me it suggests that her original text, saying that you were over, was a 'heat of the moment' thing, done out of perhaps confusion or upset.

Maybe you should reply to her, and then you might find out why she said you were over, and why she reacted as she did (if she hasn't told you already), and there is no reason things cannot return to how they were, indeed, you might find sorting it out makes the relationship stronger than before.

shouldn't be his problem to "fix" imo

It feels like its been weeks now, im trying to ignore her texts but its becoming harder to not reply, im unsure what I should do, part of me wants to go back to her, but I shouldn't.. I really want thing to be the way they used to, we were so happy together but now everything is f***ed up...

Tough it out, man. You deserve better than some two-timing bint who will lay herself out for any man-jack with a smooth story and a few quid to burn.

If she really loved you, then you would still be her one-and-only. Instead, you are obviously her second choice - a convenient stand-in for whenever Jack is out of town.

You deserve better.

I wish things were different...

I wish things were different...

Tough it out, man. You deserve better than some two-timing bint who will lay herself out for any man-jack with a smooth story and a few quid to burn.

If she really loved you, then you would still be her one-and-only. Instead, you are obviously her second choice - a convenient stand-in for whenever Jack is out of town.

You deserve better.

this ^

The reasons get deeper than that, theres this other guy called jack, he loves her and she promised that she would not date anyone while she was away from him, attending school elsewhere, although, she did decide to date me and break it with jack, then during the holidays we went to jacks town and spent alot of time together, then I finally met jack. My ex girlfriend then tells me that she once masterbated infront of jack but regreted it. The fact that she did that, and the fact that I know that she would obviously still has some feelings for jack and that he loves her, made meeting him very akward to my mind, but he seemed to be an alright guy, but I could tell what kind of a person he was, he is a manipulative fake prick, I saw through his guise...

anyways, he said he was leaving forever to england, never to come again one friday, on that day I was leaving to go visit my family long way east, while im there, she says she might be pregnant over a text and alot of things, from reading inbetween the lines I could tell she was with jack, they lied to me, jack did not leave friday, he wasn't leaving for another two weeks, now they are both in jacks town, for two weeks without me, and she just breaks up with me. She does say although, that she would love to go out with me in the future, I just cut out all my comunication with her at that point, and changed our relationship on facebook ect ect.

Im not going to go out with her, I feel that my trust had been completely betrayed, betrayed to the ground, then she basicly asks if we could go out in the future? after jack leaves forever? I dont think so, I think thats selfish that she thinks she can get things the way she wants, thats not on, thats not commitment, when you have a boyfriend, you owe him some commitment, breaking up with him to play with some guy then getting back together is a cheap little shortcut and I dont think thats very fair, its very selfish as it satifies whatever her emotion and romantic needs are, but kills me inside, then try to act like it never happened. NO THAT IS NOT OKAY.

sorry, felt like I had to vent a little.

well um the bridge was crossed twice already of doing things. okay i will just tell you, because if you want to be any type of friend to me again, you need to know this. first of all, a week and a half after we broke up, i made out with a friend, and did some other things over the span of three days. and last week, i kissed another guy, and went out to a party and drank with friends last weekend.

Dang, I feel as if I have been in your exact shoes. My ex, when she broke up with me had this to say via Facebook chat:



In essence, my ex was flat out lying to me our entire relationship.