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Would that generalization apply more or less to different stages of couple-hood, do you think?
Oops, sorry I didn't answer your exact question in my last post. And I mis-read the original post.
In my original answer of daily communication I was refering to dating couples rather than couples in general which would, of course includes married couples.
But I'd still say daily, at a minimum, not as a requirement of relationship but that's probably how much couples do contact one another. Married couples with kids tend to make a lot of contact since family life requires so much time triage; who's picking up the kids, who's dropping off the kids, when's Tommy's dental appointment, can you pick up milk on the way home....
As for married couples without kids; that depends on the couple's style; some like to touch base sometime during the working day because a short contact with the spouse is a comforting moment out of the business day. Others wait until they're headed home and usually transmit time of arrival home.
As for communication as per the stages of couplehood it seems to me that it goes like this:
- Early stage: not
quite a couple yet; excited or needy individuals make a lot of contact - more than once a day - which may be viewed by the other as welcomed because they're both eager to establish a relationship or may be viewed by the other as overwhelming needyness. Busy, self assured individuals tend to keep it to daily of less.
- Early stage: both aknowledge the dating status; contact is almost daily or could be a lot more, they are happy in the new relationship and enjoy the contact
- Established couple; here is where the relationship style varies a lot as per digital contact, but usually these couples live together so have plenty of time to relate face to face