Oh, Auntblabby, never underestimate the power of a shawl or an appropriately large and campy boa! As for heels, let some homophobe look waaaay up at you and tell you you're anything other than completely fabulous!
As for me, I'm so butch that I'd be in drag if I put on a dress! LOL! Really, though, I've got a male persona in the SCA (we look at the Middle Ages through the eyes of a person we each make up in order to see how that person might've lived), and I've even worn a mascara mustache - not really so much to fool people as to get across the point that my persona is male. What's funny to me is that people often mistake me for a boy in everyday life, while others think I'm a woman with a naturally hairy lip they need to politely ignore when I'm in my SCA garb!
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