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JML101582
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12 Sep 2011, 1:18 pm

Even though I have never had been in a realtionship IN more than three months, I would like to get back to the dating scene to meet the one true love I've been looking for my whole 29 years of life. Despite my hardships I couldn't completely control such as a having a mild stroke and Asperger's Syndrome, I am open to all kinds of women both neurotypical and special needs. I have worked WAY too hard not to get anything so I'm still going to what I love to do, but at the same time I want to share it all with the woman that I love if I ever meet her. There are REAL woman out there because I am a REAL man if you are looking for one as well.


Ladies, If you are single and looking for a REAL man in your life, message me :-)

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12 Sep 2011, 1:24 pm

I am an IMAGINARY man.

I can fly like Peter Pan.



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12 Sep 2011, 1:25 pm

~wondering how she got onto Craigs List after searching for WP~


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12 Sep 2011, 5:53 pm

Nah, that's nothing like Craig's list. There's no mention of FWB, BBW or herpes.



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12 Sep 2011, 6:21 pm

JML101582 wrote:
Even though I have never had been in a realtionship IN more than three months, I would like to get back to the dating scene to meet the one true love I've been looking for my whole 29 years of life. Despite my hardships I couldn't completely control such as a having a mild stroke and Asperger's Syndrome, I am open to all kinds of women both neurotypical and special needs. I have worked WAY too hard not to get anything so I'm still going to what I love to do, but at the same time I want to share it all with the woman that I love if I ever meet her. There are REAL woman out there because I am a REAL man if you are looking for one as well.


Ladies, If you are single and looking for a REAL man in your life, message me :-)

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You intend to meet the one true love you've been looking for for 29 years of life. Does that mean you were interested in girls 32 days before you were born? Talk about getting in there early doors! At least you're attitude is positive - beggars can't be choosers where content is concerned on Love & Dating. If I was being cynical I would say that the thread title implies that women are only REAL when they don't turn you down - but I know that's not what you meant :P

So, good luck :)


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12 Sep 2011, 10:24 pm

You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.



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12 Sep 2011, 10:35 pm

JML101582 wrote:
Even though I have never had been in a realtionship IN more than three months, I would like to get back to the dating scene to meet the one true love I've been looking for my whole 29 years of life. Despite my hardships I couldn't completely control such as a having a mild stroke and Asperger's Syndrome, I am open to all kinds of women both neurotypical and special needs. I have worked WAY too hard not to get anything so I'm still going to what I love to do, but at the same time I want to share it all with the woman that I love if I ever meet her. There are REAL woman out there because I am a REAL man if you are looking for one as well.


Ladies, If you are single and looking for a REAL man in your life, message me :-)

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You should also post in the eligible odd-bods thread stickied above.



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12 Sep 2011, 10:56 pm

SadAspy wrote:
You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.

that's not actually true, though. many poor and nice men, who are less goodlooking in any stereotypical way, manage to find partners. even aspies do. you're making massive generalisations that have no basis in reality.


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13 Sep 2011, 12:00 am

hyperlexian wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.

that's not actually true, though. many poor and nice men, who are less goodlooking in any stereotypical way, manage to find partners. even aspies do. you're making massive generalisations that have no basis in reality.


My bf is a broke as a joke 122 lb history nerd, and I'm nuts about him.
But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.


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13 Sep 2011, 12:03 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:
But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.


Well put in one sentence. It would take me about 3 paragraphs to write that.



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13 Sep 2011, 12:28 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.

that's not actually true, though. many poor and nice men, who are less goodlooking in any stereotypical way, manage to find partners. even aspies do. you're making massive generalisations that have no basis in reality.


My bf is a broke as a joke 122 lb history nerd, and I'm nuts about him.


It sure is strange how these women only exist on the internet.

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But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.


And some women find it easier to say that I just have a negative attitude or lack confidence than to admit that they are superficial and manipulative.



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13 Sep 2011, 12:31 am

hale_bopp wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.


Well put in one sentence. It would take me about 3 paragraphs to write that.


I've seen you stretch it into 2 pages of very angry rhetoric :P



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13 Sep 2011, 12:36 am

SadAspy wrote:
You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.


then how am I mildly successful then :lol:



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13 Sep 2011, 12:45 am

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But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.


And some women find it easier to say that I just have a negative attitude or lack confidence than to admit that they are superficial and manipulative.


Just because someone doesn't want to date you, it doesn't mean that they're shallow, materialistic or manipulative.



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13 Sep 2011, 12:47 am

SadAspy wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.

that's not actually true, though. many poor and nice men, who are less goodlooking in any stereotypical way, manage to find partners. even aspies do. you're making massive generalisations that have no basis in reality.


My bf is a broke as a joke 122 lb history nerd, and I'm nuts about him.


It sure is strange how these women only exist on the internet.


Right. I'm not a real person, just some intangible code in a CPU somewhere telling you you're flat-out deluded.
The avoidance of reality to the point of hilarity continues.
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And some women find it easier to say that I just have a negative attitude or lack confidence than to admit that they are superficial and manipulative.

You do have a negative attitude. You do lack confidence.
Otherwise you wouldn't insist on viewing 3.5 billion human beings on the basis of your pre-conceived notions in order to avoid critically-examining yourself.


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13 Sep 2011, 12:51 am

hale_bopp wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.


Well put in one sentence. It would take me about 3 paragraphs to write that.


Indeed. And I will admit that when I was younger, I fell into that same mindset. But I made a decision, after a lot of soul searching, not to be that hateful, that angry. It also helps to engage the appropriate women for one's sensibilities.