Are there big differenes between female and male aspies?

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twich
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23 Oct 2011, 5:02 pm

The list you posted is a summary of the chart... All the stuff you relate to on the list are in the chart, too.



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23 Oct 2011, 5:36 pm

twich wrote:
The list you posted is a summary of the chart... All the stuff you relate to on the list are in the chart, too.


The chart also has the existance of stimming, sensory issues, and such though. The chart is a description of traits associated with females, not traits associated with females that are different from those associated with males. The latter is explicitly the differences between the average aspie female and average aspie male.

And yes, I counted those in the <30 that I associate with as well. I was more pointing out that the traits associated with females don't always occur in females, as I associate with 4 of the 12 differences and am a diagnosed female. Of the traits I associate with on the chart of traits that occur in females, many of them that I associate with occur in both males and females and aren't thought of as female specific.



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24 Oct 2011, 12:35 am

I think that the differences between male and female autistics have been exaggerated. I don't think that there are big differences between male and female autistics.



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24 Oct 2011, 1:13 am

Tuttle wrote:
twich wrote:
The list you posted is a summary of the chart... All the stuff you relate to on the list are in the chart, too.


The chart also has the existance of stimming, sensory issues, and such though. The chart is a description of traits associated with females, not traits associated with females that are different from those associated with males. The latter is explicitly the differences between the average aspie female and average aspie male.

And yes, I counted those in the <30 that I associate with as well. I was more pointing out that the traits associated with females don't always occur in females, as I associate with 4 of the 12 differences and am a diagnosed female. Of the traits I associate with on the chart of traits that occur in females, many of them that I associate with occur in both males and females and aren't thought of as female specific.


Ah, ok. Sorry, I wasn't trying to be a jerk or anything, I just wasn't understanding and pointed it out in hopes of a better explanation. I understand what you mean now, thanks :)



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24 Oct 2011, 12:18 pm

Oh - my link did work then?!



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24 Oct 2011, 12:46 pm

Sowlowsolo wrote:
Oh - my link did work then?!


You just had an extra / before the url, remove that and it worked :).



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24 Oct 2011, 3:45 pm

Tuttle wrote:
Sowlowsolo wrote:
Oh - my link did work then?!


You just had an extra / before the url, remove that and it worked :).


D'oh!



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09 Nov 2011, 5:09 pm

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Female autism is sometimes less externally noticeable (less acting out, more blending in). It is also believed that females with autism often display traits later than males.

I've heard it said females often have less concrete interests


This describes me exactly.


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09 Nov 2011, 6:13 pm

Wow, I relate to almost all of those. I have learned more about myself by being here within the last week than I have in years.