gadge wrote:
I've got the opposite problem, she won't talk to me, not even an e-mail its been almost 3 1/2 yrs now

I've been estranged from my NT sisters for 17 years now (I have no other siblings). I know the feeling well about wanting one's personal life kept away from such people. It feels good to no longer be vulnerable.
Those 2 (they're half-sisters) are best friends with each other (and always have been). It wasn't until my parents died that I began to see things the way they really are. It took me a long time to accept it, but the effort and patience has proven well worth it.
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"Has not my hand made all these things, and so they came into being?" declares the LORD. "This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word." – Isaiah 66:2