Yep anyone I've ever got close to (except my very balanced, very cool brother) has had one serious problem or another. The problems though are generally self inflicted, or trauma related. Every girlfriend I've had (7 of them and I'm only 21!
) was either abused, or abusive, totally out of touch with reality, or avoidant/dependant.
I think its because I've always been different but never knew why until recently, so I had this urge to really help people, knowing at least quite a bit about the human mind.
But you can not "save" someone who does not want to save themself. It was very silly of me to waste so much energy, granted I have learnt a world about people from it, and so many things about myself, now knowing exactly what i need and being comfortable alone at least for a while.
What you you do if someone close to you, has always had a firm grip on reality, then suddenly starts to tell you they hear voices telling them exactly what I'm doing and stuff, look I know I have no right to judge what is real or not (though I believe its self evident) but when someone tells me I place myself in their head and I'm an evil demon, I just can not tolerate it, I had to leave someone I very much loved because it made me very, very frustrated to try explain the reality of things to her. I ended up constantly picking her up when she was low, because after "saving the world" with her magical powers she obviously had a serious breakdown when reality came crashing down.
My cousin who used to be my best friend is schizophrenic, we still get along but half the time he can't feel a thing at all anymore, and about 3 other girlfriends became very vicious and depressed after being with me, all my life I've felt it's all my fault, that I turn people loopy or miserable, but that can't be true can it!?
I love different people, I love the "freaks and geeks" of society, and I'm definately not saying all schitzophrenics are loopy or anything, I've met some wonderful people that can tolerate me as a result, though still in rare doses.
Just how much help is worth it? Or is it better to try help people with inspiration and openly sharing opinion? Is it wrong to share the ugly and beautiful truths of mankind with people that possibly can't handle it? To those that might escape by denying reality. Hmmn.. Maybe this being the purpose of art, and why so many of us here are so creative.