I prefer message boards over sites like Facebook and Twitter. I like social interactions to be more on my terms, so I also prefer face-to-face, and over-the-phone interactions. I also don't like getting random invites to events over in Vancouver, because I don't like driving long distances, and dislike driving in a busy city like that(where everyone seems to be an idiot on the road, whether they're drivers, pedestrians or cyclists), and not every event interests me. But, I can't bring myself to "decline" invitations, because I would feel bad for doing so. So, I often opt for the third option, and pretend I didn't receive it in the first place. It almost feels like an obligation, and I don't want to make anyone feel bad, so that's really the only way I can think of to get out of it.
If someone wants to be my Facebook friend, I'll always accept them. It's easy to get ahold of me via a personal message or "writing on my wall" only because my Facebook is linked to my email account and email is the easiest way to get ahold of me other than calling me on my cell(which is only reserved for certain people I know in real life). I've always liked having one or two close friends than trying to manage interactions with a large group of people, or a whole ton over Facebook. I don't feel the need to write a personal blog about my day to day life, nor do I feel the need to read anyone else's personal blog about their day to day life. Facebook isn't all that secure, so I don't like to put too much personal info on there.
I haven't logged into my Facebook account in a long time, but I still get emails about "notifications pending", and every week, at least one of my friends seems to have a birthday. It's all too much for me. I like my alone time too. I really don't get this need to be connected to everyone at all times. Doesn't anyone else like to have some privacy? I thought things started to get out of hand when cell phones became popular, but I can manage the small number of cell phone calls I might get. Facebook and Twitter take things to a whole new level. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who doesn't like Facebook.