So how long should I give it?

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hyperlexian
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14 Feb 2012, 10:09 pm

Sweetleaf, why are you still interested in him?


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14 Feb 2012, 10:23 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Sweetleaf, why are you still interested in him?


Because I really enjoyed when we hung out...and he said he had a horrible week and had stuff he had to do this weekend...but I just find it a bit odd he hasn't texted even though we did not end up meeting up during the weekend. I didn't feel like it was my business to push him to tell me what was going on exactly since we've only hung out twice but yeah I am kind of wondering since I haven't heard anything back. Honestly other than this there was no there was no other indication he did not want to hang out again so that is why I am not sure that's the reason he hasn't texted or anything yet.


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14 Feb 2012, 10:30 pm

ok, that makes sense. i hope he has a good reason why he didn't contact you.


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14 Feb 2012, 10:50 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
ok, that makes sense. i hope he has a good reason why he didn't contact you.


Yeah me to.


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14 Feb 2012, 11:46 pm

I'd give it to the end of the week. If you haven't heard from him by then.. I dunno, it's tricky.. I'd hate to say move on.. but on the other hand excessive waiting is bad too.. you don't want to turn into a real life version of Jurassic Bark.

Speaking only from personal experience, the only reason I would ever not call/text/chat a woman back after having spent time with her is if I didn't want to see her again. Even then I'd likely call and tell her that.