Joker
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31 Mar 2012, 10:40 pm
In my opinon if a girl, really want's to get my atteniton having self confinendenice, is the best way to get me to notice her. I am a very confindent person I speak my mind could care less what people think I know what I want out of life I set goals for myself and I acheive them. Call me arragant but this is the main thing I look for in a potenial relationship with some one and that is a strong confident woman but my question is do you think that their is a such thing as to much Confinendenice? I come across as prideful a lot of WP it's just my nature I really can't help it I love myself really everyone should. My advice to those having problems finding a potenital parter is know what you want set goals for yourself don't be afraid to go after them.
Yours truly Joker 
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31 Mar 2012, 10:46 pm
Yes, but is confidence sexy in an over-sexed dude with a female body? I'm really not afraid of anything social; I'm generally confident I guess...although many times I am humble as well. I speak my mind always, though, but I'm pretty sure that my other characteristics far outweigh any benifits that confidence may give me...
That doesn't sound very confident, does it? 
Joker
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31 Mar 2012, 10:54 pm
That doesn't sound very confident, does it?
I would say at least 15% of it does you just got to work on your own issues with yourself the main thing is. Do what makes you happen an just be true to yourself one thing I do is I don't let being a aspie. Get me down sure I have certin social issues like not being able to tell if I made some one mad. But I grow in slef confidence every day in who I am what I want out of life ect it's all a learning experience.
Yours truly Joker
31 Mar 2012, 11:21 pm
Hmmm..Confidence.
Sometimes I am Narcissistic, yet occasionally I am extremely low of confidence.
I am curious if it counts.(off-topic) 
Go back to the post, to me, people who having confidence is better than people who do not have it. However, mere confidence itself does not matter that much, one might be of low confidence and treating people well thus become popular. One maybe of low confidence but with good looks. One might be of low confidence but wealthy. All those points counts.
Nonetheless, confidence may always has good influence on people, and if you have confidence you might easier to have all those points I mentioned, comparing to people with low confidence.
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31 Mar 2012, 11:30 pm
