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Lene
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09 Jun 2012, 2:04 pm

Ever get so angry you just feel numb?

Like, such a massive betrayal of trust that it actually manages to shut out the constant worry and second guessing that seems to accompany any other social interaction.. and instead it's just a calmness..



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09 Jun 2012, 2:45 pm

Why get angry when you can get revenge!


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09 Jun 2012, 3:14 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
Why get angry when you can get revenge!


I don't know. I think it's different when it's someone you love(d). I don't feel like revenge; it's a different kind of anger; like love and hate hate in such equal measures that you just feel... nothing.



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09 Jun 2012, 3:21 pm

Yes, I think it's very similar to an acute stress response (shock) from physical injury



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09 Jun 2012, 3:49 pm

When I get angry I have to be alone or I am gonna hurt some one.



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09 Jun 2012, 5:23 pm

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09 Jun 2012, 6:03 pm

Joker wrote:
When I get angry I have to be alone or I am gonna hurt some one.


I wouldn't hurt anyone, but yeah, I really find I need to be alone when I'm stressed/angry.

edgewaters wrote:
Yes, I think it's very similar to an acute stress response (shock) from physical injury


Yeah, it does seem similar; the hurt only starts after a while.

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Thanks :)