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Carnival
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15 Aug 2012, 8:30 am

Just wondering coz i dont, and i feel like everyone else does.



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15 Aug 2012, 8:32 am

I don't. Haven't had any for longer than a month to a few months for years.



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15 Aug 2012, 8:37 am

Meh. Me neither. No-one I care about, at least. Except from siblings



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15 Aug 2012, 8:38 am

*raises hand* (assuming that by "real life" you mean in person/locally. The internet is my real life :lol: )

Nor do I have a particular desire for any. If someone cool happens along, in person or online, I'm happy to get to know them. Otherwise, don't much care.


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15 Aug 2012, 8:40 am

minotaurheadcheese wrote:
*raises hand* (assuming that by "real life" you mean in person/locally. The internet is my real life :lol: )


Same! lol



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15 Aug 2012, 8:51 am

plenty of acquaintances and had a close one until de friended-that felt like being thrown away like a piece of trash. Its hard to say that I am used to it but it doesnt hurt any less to have no friends you can trust and count on and say you are used to it after having a close friend.


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15 Aug 2012, 8:54 am

I have friends online, but that's not real life, so no.



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15 Aug 2012, 8:57 am

I haven't had any "real" friends for about three years.



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15 Aug 2012, 9:08 am

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15 Aug 2012, 9:50 am

I don't have any friends.


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15 Aug 2012, 9:56 am

None, here.

Tons of acquaintances. It's kind of weird, really. Most people tend to 'kinda like' me, but rarely does it progress beyond a 'tolerate at work' stage. In fairness, I don't think I have the time for a broader social sphere. Family/Work/Obsessions eats up more time than I have, already.



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15 Aug 2012, 10:02 am

No, no friends for me. :(


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15 Aug 2012, 10:33 am

<--- Has no one to play with. Sad and lonely 365 days a year. 366 on leap years.



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15 Aug 2012, 10:57 am

If your definition of real life should mean exclusively the physical level, i.e. corporal presence and communication via physical sense organs, no. Had one long--standing friend whom i met once a month, but he passed away almost six years ago. Since i myself am not interested in going out or acting on that physical level, i can be pretty sure this won't happen again. But the aforementioned friendship had started out at a time long before internet and in the olden days one was virtually forced to interact on the physical level. Fortunately, this has now changed.



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15 Aug 2012, 11:42 am

Define "friends"?

I have one "close friend" I see him 2 maybe 3 times a year if I'm lucky.

So in reality I have none.


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15 Aug 2012, 11:51 am

Using the literal definition I do not. However, I get along with hundreds of people although I've used the term acquaintances. People would be stunned to know I don't have any friends just as a group of female coworkers don't me they can't understand how I could possibly be single. Of course when a woman hears you have no close friends they are instantly turned off, never considering that THEY might have been the problem not me and I broke off contact with them not the other way around.

I go to sporting events alone but I do meet up with and talk to a large number of people while I'm there. I know a relative who thought I was anti-social was speechless when a large group of people at a baseball game all knew me by name. I just can't keep a close friendship going because I'm poor at starting conversation and get so absorbed in my special interests not because I'm a serial killer in disguise.