If someone raped you it was in no way your responsibility (both members who made mention of this in this topic), and I'm not talking about decisions that in retrospect probably weren't smart (going to a party, talking to some guy, whatever). Rape (and molestation) is an immoral and evil act.
I wish I was better at comforting people but I'm really not very good at it.
People have free will. People think about the decisions they are going to make and make those decisions. That someone is his head worked out the idea that he would violate a person in such a person is an indication of how horrible they are. They could have done it to anyone but they did it to you and that is terrible.
When I think about how my life might be particular bad it is things like this that remind me that it is not.
I know I'm not being much help and I wish, again, that I was better at it. I'm terribly sorry for what you've had to for through.
I hope at some point you get the support you need and deserve.
20 Dec 2006, 2:59 pm
