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25 Aug 2012, 7:46 am

From what i have observed the 'type' of NT guys who always seem too have girlfriends or can easily get one tend too be tall like over 6ft and have ape like faces with a broad forehead, unibrow, fairly short hair and small eyes. that kind of mean bad boy look if you get what i mean. Maybe girls prefer more thuggish looking men over guys with angelic faces who look inoccent?

do you agree with this? Perhaps girls go for those type of guys because they look imposing too over males so they can protect them?



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25 Aug 2012, 8:10 am

Some women do tend to go for thuggish-looking types of men but I would say these women are of a particular demographic ie stupid and likely to live on a council estate and be on benefits.
They only look more numerous as they are the type to be walking round town every day.

Also, in my opinion large eyes are usually found more attractive than small ones by both genders.

It's definitely to do with them being more tribal in attitude so that the biggest, meanest looking man is seen as the best, which, if you live in an area where everyone is thuggish, is probably true!



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25 Aug 2012, 8:19 am

this is kinda the bad boy look i am talking about
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429339
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429028
do u agree?




I did always think though that women liked men who looked quite femine with inoccent baby faces but maybe i am wrong in that respect



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25 Aug 2012, 8:31 am

Jamesy wrote:
this is kinda the bad boy look i am talking about
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429339
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429028
do u agree?

I did always think though that women liked men who looked quite femine with inoccent baby faces but maybe i am wrong in that respect


Scott Maslen? off The Bill and Eastenders? I certainly wouldn't say he has a thuggish look.
He does have a rogue/bad boy type look but not in a common way. I think he's nice looking but he's not a type that would go for me so his type isn't someone I'd pursue as people who look like him can take their pick. I think it's far more practical to go with who is showing interest in you and then see if you can find aspects of this person to fancy rather than having a 'type' that you must find. If the person already likes you that's half the battle won.

Some women like hard looking men, some like baby and feminine faces - women vary in their tastes, like men.



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25 Aug 2012, 8:34 am

i'm not sure if this is truly accurate, as you almost described me with your 'typical bad boy look', and i rarely get hit on (also confirmed by my nt friends); also, my nt female friends tell me that the bad-boy style is a bad one (unibrow is one of the biggest no-no's)



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25 Aug 2012, 8:55 am

Scott Maslen doesn't have a uni brow either - his eyebrows are just a bit bushy



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25 Aug 2012, 9:00 am

No. If that were the case, I would have some degree of luck with shorter women. I am not tall, but I look like a thuggish caveman.


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25 Aug 2012, 9:04 am

Magnus_Rex wrote:
No. If that were the case, I would have some degree of luck with shorter women. I am not tall, but I look like a thuggish caveman.


I don't think you do.



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25 Aug 2012, 9:10 am

Magnus_Rex wrote:
No. If that were the case, I would have some degree of luck with shorter women. I am not tall, but I look like a thuggish caveman.


Is that you in your avatar? You've got a babyface, mate.



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25 Aug 2012, 9:37 am

But I have small eyes, fairly bushy eyebrows, a protuberant forehead (which is probably not so obvious in my avatar picture) and a square jaw.


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25 Aug 2012, 9:39 am

Well you look like you could be in a boy band or films to me so I wouldn't worry!



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25 Aug 2012, 11:10 am

Not at all. Those things may help, but looks are almost never the ultimate deciding factor for women. When men look good however, they FEEL better about themselves and thus feel more confident, which is what truly is attractive to women.



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25 Aug 2012, 11:19 am

Jamesy wrote:


badboy=typical looking white-boy? :?

Maybe it's true actually since the term "badboy" sounds pretty lame.



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25 Aug 2012, 11:40 am

Jamesy wrote:
this is kinda the bad boy look i am talking about
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429339
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429028
do u agree?




I did always think though that women liked men who looked quite femine with inoccent baby faces but maybe i am wrong in that respect


The James Cagney/Jude Law look.

I was thinking more along the lines of something like this: http://www.flickr.com/photos/larrygassan/3424944402/



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25 Aug 2012, 11:42 am

MacDragard wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
this is kinda the bad boy look i am talking about
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429339
http://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/new ... o/90429028
do u agree?




I did always think though that women liked men who looked quite femine with inoccent baby faces but maybe i am wrong in that respect


The James Cagney/Jude Law look.

I was thinking more along the lines of something like this: http://www.flickr.com/photos/larrygassan/3424944402/


Yes he's definitely a thuggish-looking type. Not attractive to me at all. Muscley, hard looking types do nothing for me.

Tony Mortimer - lead singer with East 17 (when young) was nice looking in a 'vaguely thuggish crossed with pretty-boy' way. There's photos on the forum below:-

http://www.skyscrapercity.com/showthread.php?t=1440372