Does the stress make you lose interest?

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jmoney
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09 Mar 2005, 1:33 pm

Once you get the chance to be in a relationship and you find that they feel just like you, do you lose interest from all of the stress? Knowing that it's make or break and it's just too much to really take in at once?

Usually, what happens is, all I have to do is be myself and things will work out. By the time anything happens, I've already wore my mind down from all of the stress and I lose interest. I no longer have the energy to continue. It's like my minds been on overdrive and I need a rest.



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09 Mar 2005, 1:59 pm

no, but I can't be bothered with the stress of breaking up with someone. I don't like to hurt people.

And if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. I have met few people that it would work with.



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09 Mar 2005, 2:07 pm

I've never been in a serious relationship, but I think if I was in one with someone I wasn't absolutely comfortable being around, I'd be driven mad by the pressure of maintaining it. I'm just too paranoid :(



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30 Nov 2006, 6:06 pm

Yes, I do the same thing. It sucks.