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10 Oct 2012, 6:31 pm

OK, women, lemme ask ya something: Do you like to date younger men?

As a male, I wouldn't mind having an older woman dating me........ it'd be OK for me, as long as there weren't any 'obstacles' with anything, really.


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10 Oct 2012, 6:50 pm

I'd like to know as well. :P


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10 Oct 2012, 7:08 pm

Me too. :)


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10 Oct 2012, 10:05 pm

ill take how this thread has 4 responses only by guys and how the older men thread is 3 pages long as a clue



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11 Oct 2012, 2:12 am

I'd date a younger guy, Im 24, I'd probably go down to 20 or 21. But for 23, 22 yr old guy would be an ideal age for me. I wouldn't go drastically younger. I want someone who is on the same maturity level of me. Since Im aspie, I'm a bit behind maturity wise.



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11 Oct 2012, 2:17 am

I prefer younger men, my boyfriend is 12 years younger.
I wouldn't mind dating older men as long as they don't look old and those are rare.
By the way, I'm 50.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:21 am

My husband is 5 years younger than me. If I was single, I'd date younger men exclusively.



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11 Oct 2012, 11:59 am

With one exception, I used to only be attracted older guys. My ex husband was only 2 years older than me, but the bf after him 10 years older than me. I got tired of the emotional messes so many men my age have turned out to be. They don't want someone to act like their mother, but they haven't developed enough emotionally or in their careers or in their skills, to make it possible for me to relate to them as adults. It's not just me that has noticed this either. I have several NT female friends, who will now only date younger men, for these reasons. The man I am currently dating is 25, and I'm 36. He's more mature than any of the guys I haven't dated in the past.



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11 Oct 2012, 5:05 pm

I don't think I could. I guess it depends on the amount. I developed a crush on someone 20 years younger than me but I got over it fast when it occurred to me that when I started my current job, he was only 10 years old. 8O


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11 Oct 2012, 8:17 pm

I never dated a younger man. Or an older guy (age difference bigger than 10 years). I think age is very important. I always dated guys between my age range. I am married now, and my husband is 3 years older than me. If I ever get into the "market" again, I doubt I would date a younger man. Men are just immature, and the younger the worst it gets.



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11 Oct 2012, 8:33 pm

I prefer younger men, but by 'younger' I mean 3 - 7 years.
I'm 42, so anyone younger than 30 seems like a kid to me.
Men of my age (40+) on the other hand look and act so old that I don't find them attractive.



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11 Oct 2012, 11:45 pm

I do, but it's not intentional or anything. It just seems to keep happening.



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12 Oct 2012, 1:43 am

Wouldn´t mind at all. Many men my age have become boring and developed a beer belly.


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13 Oct 2012, 6:02 am

I've never dated anyone older - doesn't appeal - they all seem to get really boring at about 40+. This may be an unfair generalisation but I haven;t yet found an exception to the rule.



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13 Oct 2012, 6:10 am

helles wrote:
Wouldn´t mind at all. Many men my age have become boring and developed a beer belly.


:lol:



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16 Oct 2012, 9:13 am

I'm 22 and I don't like younger men. Maybe when I'm older it wouldn't matter so much, though.