jk1 wrote:
It happened to me only recently. Everybody except me was invited to an important occasion. I was invited at the last minute with an apology, but I knew one wouldn't "forget" to invite someone for an important occasion like that. It really made me look like an outcast (maybe I am) to the new members who didn't really knew me well, hence giving them prejudice about me. I guess that's how people further isolate an outcast and further confirm his status as such.
I've found that "fake-friending" is a very common bully tactic. Makes sense if you think about it - the person or group has to include you in the first place in order to exclude you later on, when you think you're one of the group. If they didn't bother to act friendly in the first place, you wouldn't be bothered about being left out.