Would this offend you?

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if you were on a beach tanning out in the sun or somewhere out tanning and you were wearing a bathing suite a bikini and a thong or whatever. and your out tanning and your alone on a beach and a guy asks you if he could help you put some lotion or tanning oil on. Would you be offended? i mean i know being touched makes a lot of people feel uncomfortable but some are ok with it. But i know when you put lotion or tanning oil on you touch every part of the body minus the bra area and under wear area if im not mistaken ive never really tried it before ive only put lotion on my legs and arms and im a guy.

Hm, well, I don't walk around in a bathing suit and I don't lay out tanning, so this hardly applies to me. But if someone I didn't know walked up and offered to rub tanning lotion on me, I would think he was super creepy and I would probably leave the beach.

I don't know if "offend" is the right term...but creep me out beyond belief, yes. I would move as far from that person as possible.

And I don't lay out tanning either...if I was on a beach, I'd likely be putting on a very high SPF sun block

I'd be offended if I was a young girl.

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Some stranger walks up and asks if he could put lotion on you????? He's a creep. Deffinately a creep. If a feamle stranger walks up and ask if she could put lotion on you, she's a creep. Do I like being touched???? Yes I do, I'd love to go and get a message at a reputable spa, or have my husband give me a message. But someone out of the blue coming up to me while on the beach tanning and asking if they can put lotion on me? Not ok.

F.Y.I I put heavy duty sunscreen on myself, but I do love the beach and go as often as possible.

come on people what if this person was hot, think about it. if some gross chick asked me i would say thanks but no. lol

Even if they were "hot", I would not know this stranger enough to know if they were a jackass, let alone enough to trust them. I need to know someone a pretty long time before I trust them enough to be comfortable enough to allow skin-to-skin physical contact...bit some stranger that asked after seeing me in my swimsuit??? Umm?? No way in hell.

I'd be offended, for sure.

If I was 'in the mood', sure, why not?

Yeah, it seems odd that a random stranger would ask something like that, unless he was really attracted to you and he was a real creep. And I mean, if he can't think up a better pick-up than "Can I rub lotion all over your body?", he's got some serious issues. Now, if it were me, I'd take one look at the person and be like, "Wow, I ain't got a chance. Bummer." and leave the beach. Curse eternal paleness! It's a real setback when one is considering dating.

If I'm alone on a beach how is there also a guy there?

I took it to mean alone as in you did not come with anyone

(But it is a public beach so there are strangers there)

I'd like to say, "Bugger off" to that person.

I would refuse, but purely out of safety reasons. Maybe this could be a setup. If a hot girl walked up to me on the beach and offered to rub lotion on me (I'm male), I would be suspicious. First of all, I'm on the ugly side when it comes to my looks, so the odds of a girl wanting to rub me after seeing for the first time are slim to bupkus. Second, while this girl is rubbing me, some guys would sneak up on me and steal my wallet and everything else I brought.

If I was in the mood for a massage (the non-sexual kind), I would go to a licensed massage facility. They are highly regulated, and while I'm being massaged, all my posessions are safely hidden in a locker.

IF I were to go to the beach (I should do that more often, I like the was the sand flows through my toes and fingers, and how it feels on the soles of my feet), and some chick asked me to rub lotion on me, I'd refuse. 1) I can do it myself, thank you!! ! 2) I'm occupied anyway (apparently I'm good-looking, how convenient) and 3) It'd be an odd circumstance that I would be wearing a bikini and a girl asked for the lotion thing. If it was a guy... I'd be further away from him than the Moon would be to Earth.