Anyone 20+ never talked with a girl?

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I'm probably the only one, even on this forum. I've been told I'm ridiculously boring. All I do is surf the net. I find the internet more comfortable and exciting than the real world, however. I don't know what can interest me in the real world.

ive talked to lots of girls before(im sure yu have too) but im 23 and never kissed a girl, had sex, or done anything..never had a gf.

I am almost 20 "Talked with a girl" , yes, i have talked to lots of girls
Talking about love or stuff like that, Once, absolute fail. So I have never tried it again.
Someday, i hope i find an aspie girl, that really does not think I'm stupid.

So why not just talk to girl on the internet. I mean if people can find love in MMOs and social networks with ever meeting face to face. I don't see how you can't do the same.

Personaly I like face to face time, but not everyone does and the internet allows lots of people who don't like that to have relationships.

talking as in simply having a conversation, i never had a problem with (well, relative to talking to guys; i connected beter with my female classmates in high school...)
however, actually talking as in showing interest and building rapport (as it is called, apperantly), dont look at me, i got no clue, counter is still at zilch now, closing in to 26th birthday

I actually exchanged phone numbers with a girl today. It was a girl I met o nblack friday.(she worksAT BESTBUY) AND i COULD TELL SHE LIKED ME BUT NEVER ASKED HER OUT. I saw her today at costco and we talked(my dad and her mom were there too lol) her mom said we should exchange numbers so i asked her lol
im not really attracted to her though so prob not gonna pursue it lol.

The first time i had a comfortable conversation with a woman (no less that i liked) I was 21. before that I would get extremely nervous just being around women for fear they may want to talk to me, I didn't want to feel the embarrassment I knew would ensue.

It was a stepping stone, it gave me some confidence for whatever reason.

I'm sure you've at least talked to a girl before...after all they make up over 50% of the human population! Perhaps you've never talked to one romantically, or even as a friend, but I don't buy that you've never talked to one ever!

You need to get outside and force yourself to do embarrassing and uncomfortable things (such as be around women), otherwise you'l never learn.

Talk about what?
When I talk to people, it's mostly about mathematics (sometimes it's also about computers or about music).

Actual answer: Yes, I've talked to girls, but their gender has never been significant for the conversation.
That is, I've never been (consciously) flirting with a girl.

I never really talked to a girl till I had my 1st relationship at 20 with a girl I met on Comedy Central's forums; we were online friends & had lots of weird things in common. I never really talked with any girls offline till a couple years latter.

30+ and never talk with any girl at length.

Not that surprising since I go pretty much everywhere alone.

20+ or 30+, you guys must be going way out of your way to avoid talking to any girl at length.

I don't believe for a second that no girl would want to interact with either of you.

I have talked to girls, and only gone as far as making out.... most of them were at clubs or EDM shows

Face-to-face, I have never talked to a girl that I didn't either go to school with or have worked with besides relatives.