First infatuation - how old were you?

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I am wondering how old we all were when we were first infatuated with someone (based upon their looks). Did you ever speak to them or get to know them?

For me it was quite young, and my parents teased me about it in both cases. After that I have never spoken about girls/women since then to anyone (except online people).

Of all the girls I have been infatuated with, I have never had a single conversation with any of them, despite having to see many of them every school day for years.

9.
Her name was Rhonda.
I wanted to get married.
I’d bike to her house and we’d play with her Barbie’s. I’ve always taken a deliberate interest in what interests the woman I like. It was about 5 miles. I wasn’t supposed to ride my bike that far. Got caught once. Dad spanked the hell outta me.

First Grade thats 7 years old (have no memory of her name or looks).

Then from 2 nd grade to 5 th another girl (I know her name and remeber her looks)

In 5 th grade started liking another girl but 5th grade was last i saw her so I have only
a basic idea of her(hair ,glasses)

Then in 6th I started liking another girl .

17

I was probably about 12 when I had my first infatuation with someone. He was such an idiot too, and still is so I am now at a loss as to why I liked him so much in the first place. Ah well, at least I didn't date him

I think I was about 11 or 12. And my God, do I wish I could go back and tell my younger self to keep his lip zipped about it...

I was 12. it lasted 3.5 years. it was hell.

I was 7, his name was Michael, and it lasted two years. I thought I was going to marry him and have kids together. My wild imagination....

I was 11. It was sixth grade. I was infatuated with this blonde girl named Jacinda, an eighth grade NT & wanted to become her gf. It was hell for the rest of middle school since everyone was giving me grief about it.

I always wanted to know what happened to Jacinda now that she is a freshman in college.

I was 3 and fell in love with the next door neighbor (adult). My parents teased me horribly about it and brought it up for years to come even after we had moved away.

10 years old

Primary 1, i was five or six, can't remember and he had curly hair, fickle me, never met a guy with curly hair before.

23, same age I'm now.

Before then, I never had a single crush on anyone; I was too rational. At 23, I was out with a girl, and she was the first one ever to go out with me on more than one date. She was so nice, friendly, and easygoing, that my rationality couldn't hold up. And so, I found myself having a crush on her. Sadly, she lost interest after second date, and it took me a few weeks to get over the crush.

8 - I had a crush on someone from Grade 2-8ish.

12. She was-and still is-one of my closes friends.


-SpaceCase

I was in second grade when I had my first crush. His name was Matthew, and from him I learned that it was not wise to have a crush on someone because they were "cute".

I had yet to discover modesty yet (That would happen in a couple years) He knew I had a crush on him, approached me at lunch and asked me to basically strip for him and two of his friends. I did it every day for a couple of weeks, thinking nothing of it until parents got involved...and *I* was the one that got punished.