Really weak interests?

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My last interest was really strong for years and I slowed down and I slowly started to not like things as much and give up on things I was enjoying to do with the interest. Likes of starting a writing and loving the idea of it and then I get a feeling I can't actually explain- its a mixture of not enjoying it, anxiety related to not wanting the interesting to end and guilt for not finishing things. It is the strangest thing, I don't even know if that is what I feel! And it just stays like that, only getting sparks of interest every now and again. It was down to one day a week! And then I tore myself away from that interest and I still get thoughts about it which is confusing!
Then the same process has started all over again! I've started to wonder if I could be causing this? Could I be making myself do this by not wanting to move on, is it because of depression? Is it because I haven't found a consuming interest? Is it because I'm not allowing myself to do other things and have very little interest in other things?
It's making me really down and really confused anything would be great!

Edit! Just realised it only says interests and not special interests, when it is special interests that are the problem.

The clinical name for loss of interest is anhedonia, and there can be multiple reasons for experiencing that. Among them depression. Look up anhedonia. Hope you find something you like soon.

Thanks, I'm going through the exact same thing. I had no idea that there was a name for this. Would anyone happen to know how to treat it?

I know that I'm depressed, but regardless, I've been making myself try all sorts of things. Nothing ever seems to stick. I do have a special interest, but I'm pretty sure that it's literally the only thing I enjoy doing at all.

I went through the same thing with my own interests not too long ago. What I did was come to the realization that just because my interests aren't as strong as before, doesn't mean that I have to stop enjoying them. I find that it helps if I listen to music that I associated with my special interests, because it allows me to indulge in being nostalgic over them without fighting with myself. I just listen to the songs over and over, as often as I need to, until the feelings pass. It was surprisingly effective for me. Another thing that helps is when you finally realize that you can enjoy other interests alongside the ones that you already have without feeling guilty. It's very liberating to be able to enjoy other things alongside your tried and true favorites. Unfortunately, there's nothing that I did to make this realization "click" with me; it just kind of fell into place after I did the thing with the music (though correlation does not equal causation, so I can't say for sure whether or not the music thing sped that process along).

Hope this helps.