ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
jonathandoors wrote:
I think I have some empathy, not for as*holes but for helpless children and animals. I feel sorry for them, and bad for them. This makes me somewhat different from Kiriana Kosawage.
I admit I have no empathy for as*holes and in fact when they suffer misfortunate I feel glad. The German is schedenfraude.
The German word is Schadenfreude & the English translation is malicious-joy; malicious glee; gloating; gloating joy; gloat. Sorry, I had to look this up! (German was one of my obsessions many years ago.) I tried looking up the above term & it gave me this spelling. I feel absolutely horrible when children are abused. I just can't understand why people do it and where I live there is way too much of it.
People where I live rationalize their horrible behaviour toward children and some of them treat their animals better than their own kids. That type of mentality I cannot empathize with.
Yeah, I lack empathy.
I can have empathy too, but for those who are cruel, never learn a lesson, or destructive, I have none. If I feel that someone deserves it, then I am certainly able to feel it. it also doesn't matter if it's man or beast.
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