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calico24
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26 Jan 2013, 3:17 pm

Hi! I'm Lauren, I'm 23, I live in Toronto, and I was diagnosed with NLD and ADHD when I was 17. I personally feel like Asperger's is a better diagnosis for me, because I kind of hate hugs and when watching a funny movie or show, even when I think it's absolutely hysterical, I don't actually laugh. I just don't think I feel emotions quite as typically as someone with an NLD diagnosis would. I don't know!

I joined because I want to feel a sense of belonging somewhere. Literally everyone I know is neurotypical, I don't have a single NLD/Aspie/autistic friend or family member (though let's be real, I am so awkward and introverted I don't have any friends right now), and I just feel like a freaking alien crash landed from another planet in every social interaction I find myself in, so having the chance to talk to people like me sounds like a total blessing. I am super lonely and after being released from the hospital for a severe anxiety attack last night, I swore I was going to make some changes in my life and start talking to more people, even if it is only online.

I'm really looking for some people I can message back and forth, and maybe even meet up with if you're in the Toronto area (I don't know if that's allowed - if it's not, sorry!). I am awesome and funny and can hook you up with great recipes because I'm a wicked good cook. Um, I don't know, it's nice to meet you all and I hope to become active around here!



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26 Jan 2013, 3:22 pm

Of course it's allowed - sadly, I'm not in Toronto but I'm sure there are members who are.

Welcome :)


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26 Jan 2013, 3:26 pm

Welcome, I'm a 22 year old male from Norway (I left out my name to avoid the AA-associations :lol: ).
I'm sure you can find plenty of people to message with here!



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26 Jan 2013, 3:28 pm

i wish i lived in toronto. i'd happily bring a bottle of wine to a wonderful meal you cooked.

i also don't have an official AS diagnosis, but don't laugh at funny things. and i didn't learn small talk until i was 50+.

best wishes in your search for folks to hang out with. welcome to WP.



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26 Jan 2013, 4:11 pm

Thanks guys! I'm glad meetups are allowed, I didn't want to be in trouble after my first post. And cathylynn, that sounds great - I love wine!



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26 Jan 2013, 5:10 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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26 Jan 2013, 5:22 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet!



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26 Jan 2013, 6:02 pm

8O

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:!:

Welcome to WP.



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26 Jan 2013, 11:22 pm

Welcome to WP!


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calico24
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27 Jan 2013, 10:47 am

Thanks everyone!



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27 Jan 2013, 10:05 pm

Welcome! Whether or not you have autism, you are welcome here.

And one-on-one or two-on-two meetups actually sound like a cool idea to me. :) Too bad I live in the heartland of the United States. :roll:


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