How to revive my interest in dating/women?

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You know you've got a good thread when people have a separate argument in it

Wolf, I found the types of eople from PoF and OKC are indeed different. I'd say OKC is definitely more casual whereas PoF is somewhere between OKC and Match. The messages exchanged on PoF led to one hang out session with a student girl when I was living in Ireland a couple of years back. Nothing came of it though. Can't say I am one for casual sex and activity encounters, though. The old me would have done all that and to be fair I'm getting older now and would rather settle down with one person. But hey those sites try and cater for many people's needs and I respect other's needs are different from my own. I'll keep working on my profile and message the ladie now and again but from my own experiences I don't think I work very well with net dating every girl I've dated bar 1 has been through meeting locally off of a computer.

hartz I'm definitely in the right frame of mind to meet someone I'd say the problem is I haven't found a woman I've fallen for or gone smitten over in a while. I think users here helped me pinpoint some underlying causes in my lack of drive despite wanting all the thrills and spills of love and dating, and I'm gonna work on those. Love definitely comes when you don't expect it as cliche as it sounds.

sponge I have almost worked past all that now. It is a slight concern of mine still when talking to other girls in the group and so I distaned both mysef and my thoughts admittedly from them. But hey it's worth a shot right? I'll just introduce myself, talk to them and everyone as normal and see how it goes!

No, man. Cheerleaders don't do what I do. They just stand and cheer. I take action and fight some of the fights for others when necessary.

I definitely agree with the Job thing, I went on a date about 4 weeks ago with a pretty lassy I met in a party months before, I've been unemployed since mid December and I can honestly say I felt like a kid, I had to barrow ten pound just to make sure I could definitely pay for the date, which in total cost me 43 pound which is alot when your on the dole. But it's not just the Financial side, When am not working all I do is sit around the House or go to the gym, and occasionally meet up with people when I've the odd bit of cash, But in General being unemployed for me = Low self esteem, not much interest in dating as I hate being strapped for money and unable to just wisk the other person away, Not going out with friends half as much as I can't afford it and I just get depressed.


First goal for every one trying to get on the Dating scene again is Work. Admittedly I'm trying to get into College atm so hopeful Student will work as well as employeed

Getting fit will ramp up up sex drive
Skateboarding is teaching me many lessons ATM


I recently have been lucky to have met a muse
She has ignited the fire within

Intent intent intent!

I have no issue with your post, to be frank. I didn't support Boo against your post in particular (although I did clarify to hyperlexian some things concerning the exchange between you and Boo).

No problem. I'm not sure what was wrong with your post but okay lol

Off topic:
Is donating to WP easy? Is it a one-off thing or can you donate on a regular basis?

You're right. It was just one response from him to your post.