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11 Feb 2013, 3:50 am

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11 Feb 2013, 5:15 am

Yeah, this isn't that big a shock to me. Then again, I worked in the Scottish parliament dealing with Domestic Abuse. It's not just Man on Woman, LGBT and Woman on Man are also issues. Around 10% of cases involve an abusive woman. However there is a massive lack of awareness and misunderstanding surrounding the issue, because if a man says they are being abused (particularly physical abuse) they are pretty much laughed at, because of the traditional gender roles. Kinda sucks.


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11 Feb 2013, 6:56 am

If a man goes to the police and they laugh at him instead of doing their work, then report then. 40 years ago women were also laughed at, when they went to police, seeking help because of their husband violating them. Some accepted it and went home. Some did not accept it and reported the police for not doing the work. As long as they finally started to understand their work.

Its sad if there is still police, that is unable to remember, that they are paid to represent the law and not their own social believes. If they need to be reminded by reporting them, bad for them.



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11 Feb 2013, 2:55 pm

Schneekugel wrote:
If a man goes to the police and they laugh at him instead of doing their work, then report then. 40 years ago women were also laughed at, when they went to police, seeking help because of their husband violating them. Some accepted it and went home. Some did not accept it and reported the police for not doing the work. As long as they finally started to understand their work.

Its sad if there is still police, that is unable to remember, that they are paid to represent the law and not their own social believes. If they need to be reminded by reporting them, bad for them.


The trouble is, the police are trained to only consider women as victims. If man goes to the police, the one likely to be arrested is him, even if the wife is the primary abuser.



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11 Feb 2013, 3:27 pm

As real and as sad as this is, I can't help but think of Lorena Bobbit. I wouldn't term it abuse, just abusive behavior. Nevertheless, Bobbit is a folk hero among Americans.



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11 Feb 2013, 8:47 pm

Men are supposed to wait until they get chased with a knife or run over with a car. Anything less you'll just be laughed at for being afraid of a woman.



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11 Feb 2013, 8:49 pm

Oh, fun. Bring it on. Always wanted to try hardcore BDSM as the M. lol What exactly is a typical woman going to do to me? Only girl I've ever met who could really hurt me was trans.

She can punch me till she gets blue in the face. If it makes her feel better, I'm ok with it. It would probably make me feel better too.



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11 Feb 2013, 8:59 pm

My son's girl friend beat him with a cooler,he did not retaliate or go to the cops.
Men feel emasculated reporting abuse,but they should.
Abuse is abuse.Man,woman,someone hits another person,they should be charged with abuse.


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11 Feb 2013, 9:03 pm

I wonder how these guys got mixed up with these mean chicks in the first place?



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11 Feb 2013, 9:08 pm

The mean chick is uber hot and the men possibly are turned on by volatile women,hot makeup sex.A man will forgive most anything for a good roll in the hay.
Slap them,then .........,um,,same amount of letters. :lol:


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11 Feb 2013, 9:08 pm

Tyri0n wrote:
Oh, fun. Bring it on. Always wanted to try hardcore BDSM as the M.

That's not abuse though, because you want that to happen. These guys don't have a lot of choice about whether their partner hits them or not.



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11 Feb 2013, 9:15 pm

Misslizard wrote:
My son's girl friend beat him with a cooler,he did not retaliate or go to the cops.
Men feel emasculated reporting abuse,but they should.
Abuse is abuse.Man,woman,someone hits another person,they should be charged with abuse.


A man shouldn't feel safe just because he's physically stronger. Don't want to become one of these people.

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11 Feb 2013, 9:19 pm

Tequila wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
Oh, fun. Bring it on. Always wanted to try hardcore BDSM as the M.

That's not abuse though, because you want that to happen. These guys don't have a lot of choice about whether their partner hits them or not.


Joking, but still, I'm pretty skeptical that this is a common problem.



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11 Feb 2013, 9:27 pm

^^^^^^^^You will never know the real statistics because most men don't file reports.


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11 Feb 2013, 10:51 pm

Misandry at its worst ... blatant misandry.


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11 Feb 2013, 10:59 pm

I thought this thread said 'Women who eat their husbands'.
Guess I'm on the wrong thread. 8O