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StutteringAspie
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07 Mar 2013, 4:35 pm

Its not a desire, but I find the image of a woman just holding me in her arms very relaxing. I would have no problem holding a girl myself but I feel like having this feeling makes me somewhat like a pushover or something. Is there anyone who has this feeling also? Are there girls who want to hold a man in her arms too?



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07 Mar 2013, 4:47 pm

I'm sure there are somewhere. :) Personally, there are certain occasions where it's appropriate but on a regular basis only for children.



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07 Mar 2013, 4:49 pm

You have just given me a great business idea.



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07 Mar 2013, 4:49 pm

There are people who wear diapers man, it's the internet.. you can find anything.
I've been held a few times by a woman, but it's never been a normal thing.
I was the 'small spoon' once in a while too.. which was awkward since I'm 6'2 and she was like 5'1, but yea.. I don't think most women want to be in that position more often than the man is.



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07 Mar 2013, 8:50 pm

I think you should clarify what you mean by "held by". I'm not sure that everyone has the same idea of what you meant.

Personally, I think if you meant something along the lines of cuddling, sustained close hugging, or resting against someone's shoulder or on their lap, then it's not so strange even though many men would be emarassed to talk about it openly... and not particularly strange the other way around either. If you meant being picked up and held like a baby, that'd be more unusual though.



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08 Mar 2013, 1:34 pm

oh im sorry, i meant to be held like a baby....... i know its really creepy, but its just a thought. Im so sorry if I look really weird or creepy. :oops: :cry: :oops:



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08 Mar 2013, 1:48 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You have just given me a great business idea.


dont do it



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08 Mar 2013, 3:46 pm

Buy one of these pillows. :wink: :
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08 Mar 2013, 4:12 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You have just given me a great business idea.


dont do it



Well, it would only require a one big room, a cashier, ladies and men of different physique types and ages and a one hell of a bone cracker bodyguard.



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08 Mar 2013, 4:28 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You have just given me a great business idea.


dont do it



Well, it would only require a one big room, a cashier, ladies and men of different physique types and ages and a one hell of a bone cracker bodyguard.
Need any investors for your hug-brothel? There's money to be made here gentlemen!



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08 Mar 2013, 4:31 pm

Geekonychus wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You have just given me a great business idea.


dont do it



Well, it would only require a one big room, a cashier, ladies and men of different physique types and ages and a one hell of a bone cracker bodyguard.
Need any investors? There's money to be made here gentlemen!


That might work best in Japan.



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08 Mar 2013, 4:39 pm

Sounds like OP has Mommy issues. So these Japanese girls need to be trained in hypnosis for the treatment to be fully effective.

But not universal. Light touch is irksome for some.

You could add this: being smothered by six slightly chubby girls at once is probably a good treatment for sensory issues related to autism, sort of like Temple Grandin's pressure machine. I think you're on to something, Boo.



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08 Mar 2013, 5:04 pm

Any pro huggers want to apply?

Wolfheart, you're the bodyguard.



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08 Mar 2013, 7:47 pm

StutteringAspie wrote:
oh im sorry, i meant to be held like a baby....... i know its really creepy, but its just a thought. Im so sorry if I look really weird or creepy. :oops: :cry: :oops:


yeah it's a bit creepy

do you have mommy issues?



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08 Mar 2013, 8:54 pm

No... I don't have mommy issues.



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09 Mar 2013, 5:10 am

Well I usually like doing the hugging but when I was seeing a girl being held was nice too. I usually sleep with a body pillow (or 2), helps me sleep sound.


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