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09 Apr 2013, 12:46 am

Are you

A. the type of person who needs to be physically attracted to someone first to develop romantic interest in them?

B. the type of person who finds people more physically attractive the more you like them, and less physically attractive the less you like them?

C. Something else?

I am a B.

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09 Apr 2013, 12:47 am

B. too. Most of my friends are A. I don't get it.

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09 Apr 2013, 1:05 am

mix of both A & B, sometimes it's one, sometimes it's the other, so i guess that makes me C?

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09 Apr 2013, 1:08 am

Kaufmancab51 wrote:

mix of both A & B, sometimes it's one, sometimes it's the other, so i guess that makes me C?

This, but usually a bit more A than B, then B can happen sometimes in addition.

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09 Apr 2013, 1:58 am

B. When I was younger it was briefly anti-B, where if someone looked angelic I'd think that they were. I was quickly disabused of that notion, though.

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09 Apr 2013, 6:05 am

A little bit of both, but I would say I am more of a B. At first I couldn´t think of falling in love with someone that didn´t meet very specific physical standards. But I´ve realized I can.
I think you automatically start feeling more attracted to people you get along with.

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09 Apr 2013, 6:37 am

Definitely B. The more time I spend with someone, the more attracted I am to them.

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09 Apr 2013, 8:52 am

A and B. The older I get the more 'B' I become.

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09 Apr 2013, 9:01 am

I am B.

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09 Apr 2013, 9:34 am

B all the way. I've been in situations where I felt very little physical attraction initially but then watched it develop........

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09 Apr 2013, 10:42 am

B, and I've seen concrete cases of that happening to me.

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09 Apr 2013, 1:13 pm

Usually B. But there have been a couple of cases of "something else". I have had very strong, almost instantaneous dislikes of a couple of guys that I ended up, um, "seeing". :wink:

I decided at age 13 that there were lots of nice, average-looking guys around who wouldn't mind a little attention and since I'm not exactly a supermodel myself, why waste time longing after hunks.

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09 Apr 2013, 1:26 pm

Makes me sound really shallow, but A.

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09 Apr 2013, 4:46 pm

B.

I can think of plenty of physically good looking people that I just don't find attractive.

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09 Apr 2013, 11:03 pm

More B than A for me.

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10 Apr 2013, 12:25 am

Mostly B, at least the 1st part. I don't know that I think they are less PHYSICALY attractive if they aren't nice, just less attractive overall. And I am more attrated to people as I grow closer to them, regardless of their physical attractiveness.

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