A disturbing realization - not a PC thread.

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PC= politically correct.

For the guys who are above 30, could it be we are struggling to make things work with women around our age because most of those women are actually.... non-relationship materials as well?

It's not very false to assume based on the fact that we made it single to this age that there's something fundamentally wrong with us (sorry but it's usually true, could be social skills, insecurity, poverty, zero self esteem..etc) - I feel it's the case for the ladies too; (they're either too picky, too emotionally unstable, too greedy, too insecure...etc).

For example, *All* the girls who I've dated and didn't get a second date with are still single to this day, and been single for long.

I guess most of those with desirable traits (of both genders) and relationship-materials are already in relationship.


So I guess we are a pool of leftovers trying to date leftovers.

Can't people break up or divorce after 30?

I was thinking the same thing in my mid-20s...and the number of girls not in relationship, not married, and no kids (if one finds that to be an issue) seems to go down exponentially.

That's true boo.

But I think the tables turn a bit. See women usually want to have children and their body clocks are ticking, so they become a bit more interested. Like I thought I read somewhere that there libido peaks at 30. Also I think men age better than women.

One thing I'd mention don't get pissed off at women in general from bad experiences from women you meet on dating sites. They do not reflect on what women as a whole are like. Like you said they usually are single for a very good reason.

There is some truth to what your saying.

Getting divorced young doesn't necessarily mean they are the type of person boo is referring to. I know a few people who rushed to get married, got divorced, and now, when they took things slower, are in happy relationships.

Of course, when he turns 50, he can pick up a hot 18 year old and be her sugar daddy.

^ I read in several places that divorcees usually get remarried fast.


en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Remarriage

I was married for over 20 years.I got married young,I wish I had waited.You are still immature at a young age and can really make bad relationship choices.I told both my kids to wait till they were in their thirties to get serious.Have fun,live a little,then settle down.
And I disagree with you MR_BOGAN about men aging better than women.Or at least the men around here don't.Most look pretty haggard by 50.But lots of jobs here are outside, and I guess the sun takes it's toll.I know I look younger than the men around here that are my age.But I believe in sunscreen and big hats.

It is true that people who are best at relationships are usually spoke for, and spoken for at a young age. I would liken this problem to the job conundrum of needing experience to get a job, but not being able to get a job without experience. In both cases, I think all we can do is try, try, try--and try again--until we succeed. Most people do overcome the jobs problem, and many people do find romantic happiness past age thirty for the first time. It's a matter of being consistent and persistent.

You remember wen i told you that i knew why you ere having troubles? This was it.