Self-diagnosis?
Hi. Yet another question that might have been answered bunch of times before, but well, I was just curious to see how many of you guys are actually diagnosed by a psychiatrist and how many come up with the decision of being an aspie themselves.
Last edited by tolga7t on 04 Feb 2007, 5:02 pm, edited 1 time in total.
You can't simply "decide to be an aspie". I AM self diagnosed, but I think I did a better job than any psychiatrist could do. I looked at the DSM, matched everything up, validated it(Made sure I had the terminology right, etc....) against other things, and even asked diagnosed aspies about it, and watched how they react, understand terms, etc.... This is another thing I may not tell employers, etc... about, but I guess it is ASPIE all the way.
BTW I HAVE decided to get back more to my roots, but I have mulled that a while, and decided before I found out about AS. Besides, I am middle aged, and you have to keep moving ahead to avoid sliding back.
Steve
[quote=tolga7t]come up with the decision of being an aspie themselves.[/quote]lol that is a funny way of putting it
i have been diagnosed to put mum and dads mind at rest thought i knew i was an apsie as soon as i first read about it
aspie and proud
GREAT site u guys have here, hope to post more
AssBurgerWithCheese
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I didn't really "self-diagnose" per se. I found out about it when I was doing some information on neurological conditions when I was coming up with material for English language testing (I had to write passages on various topics, from health issues to the environment to history). I suspected ADHD for a long time (for which I'm taking Ritalin), but when I came across Asperger's Syndrome, it suddenly explained a lot my history and I felt a lot better about myself - that I wasn't alone and that there was an actual reason for that.
I went to a local clinic for ADHD diagnosis and many of the symptoms I described - fidgeting, nodding off at 1:30PM, inability to stay focused on mundane tasks - all correlated. I mentioned AS, as a lot of the situations that I read about closely resembled ones from my childhood. Bullying despite all attempts to be the kind of person that people would want to be around; intelligence in books, but not with people; obsessive level focus on specific topics (pop culture, martial arts, puzzle solving); inability to read people.
I wouldn't say that I can completely absolve myself of any blame as a result - as much as I do realize I have a diagnosable medical condition, there are things I can do to improve my situation, like just getting out there and meeting people. As it stands, there is a distinct possibility that I might be able to "cure" myself just by meeting people and getting my self-confidence level up, or at least by learning appropriate reactions to certain social situations, so I can have a better handle on my life at least, if not the condition itself.
What kind of fidgeting? Why did you "nod off" was it almost like a daydream that forced you to become sleepy? I'm curious...
I wish you luck! It didn't help me. 8(
Steve
I'm self-diagnosed, and if I'm wrong: then I must simply be the most freakish creature ever to spring from the species Homo Sapiens Sapiens.
The latter certainly could be the case (it would be just my luck); but I have a definite feeling that even if I am just a singularly unique freak: a doctor would pin an AS label on me anyway, just as a convenient explanation for me being the way that I am (since I match up so perfectly with the majority of the diagnostic criteria for AS).
self diagnosed; whatcha think?
socially inept, but im not lonely, i do enjoy my own company greatly
habitual patterns; eating, walking to and from places, routines, relationships
obsessions: i read reference books for fun, other "different" things too, think constantly about a relationshipbreakup if it an emotional end
i dont understand subtlties very well, i take a lot of what people say verbatum. i dont understand subtlties well either, i take them literally
infrequent eye contact
frustrated communications; i get flustered when people are not direct with me
honest to a fault; i just do not beleive in lieing, even if it would benefit me.
saying and doing innapropriate things, not realizing it til people tell me
frequent bicyle accidents
extremely sensitive to sounds, bright lights, i also notice patterns in physical things and im fascinated by them.
extremely wordy, very talkative, i write constantly, lyrics, journals, notes
since i was a child i constantly tighten and flex my toes, every waking moment, plus i have nervous movements; leg tapping
emotional outbursts. not violent, but it builds up until i cant take it and i dont know why; frustrated
i get taken advantage of without even knowing it until its too late. then i get over emotional because i realized i was duped
i decided im gonna get tested. most of my friends and family and even coworkers beleive and support me, but some people doubt the validity of my having aspergers, but really, if they are NT, and i'm not, who are they to doubt me, after all, i am almost positive i know myself more than anyone else may even begin to know me! i am not frustrated with my self diagnosis, i accept it. in fact, i am releived to know i have an answer finally to knowing why i am who i am! i get frustrated when other people do not beleive me. i sometimes get frustrated when people doubt me, like they think i found a convenient excuse for my being so diferent than normal people. its a convenient reality, is what it is. hear me now fellow aspergers; this is very important. do not let other peoples doubt about you make you feel less about yourself! we are very gifted and intelligent and skilled and honest and kind and fair. thats all...
ps is there a good link somewhere on how to find asperger diagnostic specialists>? im in chicago. thanks for listening to me,.
socially inept, but im not lonely, i do enjoy my own company greatly
habitual patterns; eating, walking to and from places, routines, relationships
obsessions: i read reference books for fun, other "different" things too, think constantly about a relationshipbreakup if it an emotional end
i dont understand subtlties very well, i take a lot of what people say verbatum. i dont understand subtlties well either, i take them literally
infrequent eye contact
frustrated communications; i get flustered when people are not direct with me
honest to a fault; i just do not beleive in lieing, even if it would benefit me.
saying and doing innapropriate things, not realizing it til people tell me
frequent bicyle accidents
extremely sensitive to sounds, bright lights, i also notice patterns in physical things and im fascinated by them.
extremely wordy, very talkative, i write constantly, lyrics, journals, notes
since i was a child i constantly tighten and flex my toes, every waking moment, plus i have nervous movements; leg tapping
emotional outbursts. not violent, but it builds up until i cant take it and i dont know why; frustrated
i get taken advantage of without even knowing it until its too late. then i get over emotional because i realized i was duped
i decided im gonna get tested. most of my friends and family and even coworkers beleive and support me, but some people doubt the validity of my having aspergers, but really, if they are NT, and i'm not, who are they to doubt me, after all, i am almost positive i know myself more than anyone else may even begin to know me! i am not frustrated with my self diagnosis, i accept it. in fact, i am releived to know i have an answer finally to knowing why i am who i am! i get frustrated when other people do not beleive me. i sometimes get frustrated when people doubt me, like they think i found a convenient excuse for my being so diferent than normal people. its a convenient reality, is what it is. hear me now fellow aspergers; this is very important. do not let other peoples doubt about you make you feel less about yourself! we are very gifted and intelligent and skilled and honest and kind and fair. thats all...
ps is there a good link somewhere on how to find asperger diagnostic specialists>? im in chicago. thanks for listening to me,.
MAN does that sound like me! And the part where you say:
To a good degree is true of me even TODAY! That is saying a LOT considering the situations I am put into. Of course, the rest is very true of me, I just singled out that one thing.
Well, I am not duped SO easily anymore, and never had a bicycle accident. I also hanlde subtlties better now.
Steve
does anybody have a solution for this? since we so miss the subtle clues, its almost impossible to avoid...
Well, I am always looking for something, etc... Interestingly, stress sometimes causes my logic to go south. I guess that is a "meltdown".
Next time, I won't be in a sales situation for long. I have said it before, but I mean it. NEXT time I will NOT change plans spur of the moment because of a salespitch. On my last car, I planned CAREFULLY! I ended up with FOUR good picks. I researched EVERYTHING! I went looking, and one jerk overlooked a couple things I asked for, and offered me a choice. I was AHEM... Encouraged 8( to research THERE! I missed 2 or 3 points. Oh well, AS makes some less important, and it IS a nice car. I am good at estimating APR, and caught them in FIVE scams!(ALWAYS be aware of REAL amortization when researching loans, ESPECIALLY with cars! They LOVE to try to rip you off!) I ended up letting the fifth slide.(I knew it, but was warned out, and thought I had less time.) 8( Story of my life!
One thing you DO have to do is use LOGIC! It is AMAZING how many things DEFY logic! Like what about the get rich quick gimics that are practically free, etc... Or the idiots that don't even know the lingo! One SCAM talks about using "OTHER Peoples Money", and asks the buyer to CHARGE A BUNDLE on THEIR credit card, saying THAT is other peoples money. NOPE, it is the BUYERS credit!
When I was little and ran on human AS INSTINCT, I asked WHY, was stubborn, and quick to walk away. If ONLY I was still like that! If YOU act like that, you'll avoid a LOT of hassles.
Steve
