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03 Jan 2014, 6:33 pm

ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
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ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
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OMG don't get me started on therapy. Who's to say it can help? Sometimes people are worse after they have been than before. It's in what you choose to believe and it's mostly psychological. If you believe in it, and you have some serendipidity on your side, you will triumph.


So true..and so dependent on who the therapist IS..

My problem was mostly over-regulation of emotions..

I needed a dam therapist..who even experienced emotions strongly themselves to even help me...

The first few had a bedside manner like a friggin brain surgeon.. (somewhere on the broader psychopathy spectrum)

Social workers make better therapists overall i think..than psychologists..

And yes i got the one finally i needed..and in effect she is almost a miracle worker to bring back the emotions..of repressed 'autistic folks'.....

Just my experience...

As they go in to this thing..just wanting to help people..and not necessarily to figure 'IT' all out logically...

There is a lot more to be 'said' for emotion than logic..anyway..in the real ballgame of life and happiness...

IN my opinion...

I like to keep in mind that therapists are human like everyone else and can make mistakes. I don't have faith that one person can be the equivalent of a god in my life, wave a magic wand (in the form of words or books) and I am somehow better off than before I started. I believe in the power one has over oneself to heal before I give that responsibility to another. Others can only do so much.


IN my opinion..it always takes a team effort..

The basic definition of any so called social animal..anyWay..at least according to science..and the totality of what i personAlly see so far...:)

I just think it's overrated and get better results turning inward and pursuing wisdom.


I agree with that too..it depends..though what the issue is..

My issue was partially physiological ..so i needed a little external help on that...

And yes.. extreme stress can certainly 'break down the brain'..where it no longer functions properly with issues like emotions..

Similar to PTSD...


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03 Jan 2014, 6:53 pm

If there was take out nearby I believe I would summon some Chinese food.


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03 Jan 2014, 7:25 pm

An interesting article I'm reading on the James Randi challenge:
http://www.dailygrail.com/features/the- ... -challenge



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03 Jan 2014, 7:28 pm

aghogday wrote:
I agree with that too..it depends..though what the issue is..

My issue was partially physiological ..so i needed a little external help on that...

And yes.. extreme stress can certainly 'break down the brain'..where it no longer functions properly with issues like emotions..

Similar to PTSD...

Oh yes I know all about that from when I was in school - so stressed out all I could do was shut down then I would go home and have an emotional breakdown most nights.



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03 Jan 2014, 8:05 pm

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I believe in summonings. In fact I will try one now. I hereby summons a new Ahogday blog post here and I predict it will materialize in the next 10 days.

I must be magic. My summing worked.



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03 Jan 2014, 10:24 pm

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I believe in summonings. In fact I will try one now. I hereby summons a new Ahogday blog post here and I predict it will materialize in the next 10 days.

I must be magic. My summing worked.


Hmm..i think that is more like statistical probability considering i have posted 105 things..in the last about a half a year..on my blog...

But anyway..enjoy..i know i did..haha...

I just got awesomes from the ladies..that is all a guy could want in life..huh...

Butt i don't expect stuff like that..and don't need..IT

All i need is to exist..and i got the bliss..dude...

You might could have it to..

But 'Trust Me' it takes a much different attitude than this toward your fellow man..

friend...


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03 Jan 2014, 10:26 pm

ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
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I agree with that too..it depends..though what the issue is..

My issue was partially physiological ..so i needed a little external help on that...

And yes.. extreme stress can certainly 'break down the brain'..where it no longer functions properly with issues like emotions..

Similar to PTSD...

Oh yes I know all about that from when I was in school - so stressed out all I could do was shut down then I would go home and have an emotional breakdown most nights.


Glad.. and hope you are not experiencing that anymore friend....


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03 Jan 2014, 10:43 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
An interesting article I'm reading on the James Randi challenge:
http://www.dailygrail.com/features/the- ... -challenge


Yes..i agree..and there is compelling recent research that indicates some verity to the pre-cognition phenomenon ..but as indicated in this article as a short falling of the Randi Challenge..is the level of success required to meet what Randi asks for per phenomenon like pre-cognition..

It is much more subtle than obvious..

And always more obvious to the individual that experiences it..

But from my own personal experience..i will tell you this..

Pre-cognition is a REAL PHENOMENON...

There are not even any odds that could explain the pre-cognition that my wife displays in our relationship..and that of others..

I don't have it.. but i document and witness IT by her..

Interestingly her fraternal twin brother has some of of this..similar..REAL APTITUDE IN LIFE...

ALSO interesting..is that recent research shows there is some empirical evidence now..for potential genetic memories..where one has advantages.. or disadvantages..depending on the life experience of one's ancestors...

http://www.sciencegymnasium.com/2014/01 ... s-may.html

A whole new potential tilt there on reincarnation..as potentially Literally one of genetic ancestors..through actual genetics...

But as usual some people refuse to listen to their heart or the heart of others..until science tells them it is so....

Life is way to short..to put any limitation on it..or even expectation..in my opinion..based on just the opinions of other people..who do not experience..obviously the same experience.. of life...


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