Hi, I'm New :)
That's what the description of this board was, so here's my post to say I'm new.
Let me start with a few key components.
1st. I am NOT on the autism spectrum, although I believe we all have our quirks, I'm not autistic. I do however work in the autism field, and love places that I can learn more so as to improve the lives of the kid I work with.
2nd please don't be offended by my username. I am not an autism speaks apologist. I don't 'light it up blue' or believe that those with autism are something that needs fixed. I am fascinated by autism, and how each individual with autism is exactly that. I don't pretend to understand what goes on in the worlds of my kiddos all the time, and so to me, they are little puzzles. But I don't think it's a bad thing. I LOVE them for who they are as individuals, I love their autistic tendencies, I love their flaps, and spins and OCDs, I love their smile, and snuggles, and rituals. Again, it is NOT a bad thing that I consider them to be puzzles that I would like to solve. Solving doesn't mean fixing to me either. They aren't broken, nothing needs 'fixed' To me, solving means understanding, learning, comprehending what is going on in their heads, so that I can help to relieve their frustrations and make their lives happier and more fulfilled.
3rd While I don't believe people with autism need 'fixed', I also believe that ALL of us should alsways strive to reach our maximum potential. I don't look at autism as a crutch or an excuse. I think the kids I work with should learn aademically to the best of their abilities. They should learn socially to the best of their abilities. They will have a better life if they can figure out how to fit into a 'neurotypical world' On the flip side, I try to teach other NT's to maybe be a little more tolerant, and maybe just maybe someday, our social 'norms' might change.
Anyway, sorry if I come off a little bit harsh or brash. I've been not accepted on some other boards because I am viewed as an outsider. I live my life trying to make sure my kiddos don't feel like outsiders, so I don't like to feel that way on the flip side. I hope to learn a lot from all of you!
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I agree with much of what you say. While I'm am a self diagnosed Aspie, I have learned to embrace it with much enthusiasm.
It hasn't been easy though, I must admit. It's unfortunate that so many Aspies do struggle, especially as so many have had to go through childhood, unsure of what's going on, and often neglected. Quite a few are also subject to abuse, which is horribly tragic, as many become 'beaten in to submission'. It angers me every time I read of those types of stories; unfortunately too many people turn a blind eye.
As an Aspie, I have my obsessions, and Aspergers itself has become one for me ever since I started to suspect that I might have it. If you would ever like to chat about it with anyone, I'm keen. It would be interesting to see an NTs perspective. It's quite interesting that you should be so interested; out of curiosity, is your interest related to you career? Or do you know someone with Aspergers?
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I agree with much of what you say. While I'm am a self diagnosed Aspie, I have learned to embrace it with much enthusiasm.
It hasn't been easy though, I must admit. It's unfortunate that so many Aspies do struggle, especially as so many have had to go through childhood, unsure of what's going on, and often neglected. Quite a few are also subject to abuse, which is horribly tragic, as many become 'beaten in to submission'. It angers me every time I read of those types of stories; unfortunately too many people turn a blind eye.
As an Aspie, I have my obsessions, and Aspergers itself has become one for me ever since I started to suspect that I might have it. If you would ever like to chat about it with anyone, I'm keen. It would be interesting to see an NTs perspective. It's quite interesting that you should be so interested; out of curiosity, is your interest related to you career? Or do you know someone with Aspergers?
It's mostly due to my career, and my cousin who is self-diagnosed Aspergers. But it's more than work for me. I have fallen in love with the kiddos I work with, almost as if they are my own children so I truly care about what's best for them. It's not just work
I agree with much of what you say. While I'm am a self diagnosed Aspie, I have learned to embrace it with much enthusiasm.
It hasn't been easy though, I must admit. It's unfortunate that so many Aspies do struggle, especially as so many have had to go through childhood, unsure of what's going on, and often neglected. Quite a few are also subject to abuse, which is horribly tragic, as many become 'beaten in to submission'. It angers me every time I read of those types of stories; unfortunately too many people turn a blind eye.
As an Aspie, I have my obsessions, and Aspergers itself has become one for me ever since I started to suspect that I might have it. If you would ever like to chat about it with anyone, I'm keen. It would be interesting to see an NTs perspective. It's quite interesting that you should be so interested; out of curiosity, is your interest related to you career? Or do you know someone with Aspergers?
It's mostly due to my career, and my cousin who is self-diagnosed Aspergers. But it's more than work for me. I have fallen in love with the kiddos I work with, almost as if they are my own children so I truly care about what's best for them. It's not just work
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So how long have you been in your line of work? Do you work as a support teacher, or psychologist with kids? I've always been interested to know what kind of support is offered to kids, who are diagnosed early, and how it effects them. I imagine it would mostly involve social education.
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- Peter MC Williams
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I agree with much of what you say. While I'm am a self diagnosed Aspie, I have learned to embrace it with much enthusiasm.
It hasn't been easy though, I must admit. It's unfortunate that so many Aspies do struggle, especially as so many have had to go through childhood, unsure of what's going on, and often neglected. Quite a few are also subject to abuse, which is horribly tragic, as many become 'beaten in to submission'. It angers me every time I read of those types of stories; unfortunately too many people turn a blind eye.
As an Aspie, I have my obsessions, and Aspergers itself has become one for me ever since I started to suspect that I might have it. If you would ever like to chat about it with anyone, I'm keen. It would be interesting to see an NTs perspective. It's quite interesting that you should be so interested; out of curiosity, is your interest related to you career? Or do you know someone with Aspergers?
It's mostly due to my career, and my cousin who is self-diagnosed Aspergers. But it's more than work for me. I have fallen in love with the kiddos I work with, almost as if they are my own children so I truly care about what's best for them. It's not just work
Awesome
So how long have you been in your line of work? Do you work as a support teacher, or psychologist with kids? I've always been interested to know what kind of support is offered to kids, who are diagnosed early, and how it effects them. I imagine it would mostly involve social education.
I do a lot of work with early intervention. It started out as pretty strict ABA but over the past 6 years I've learned other intervention methods as well. THe youngest kid I worked with was not yet 2 when I started with him and the oldest chidl I have worked with is 11. Currently I am a school aide for a first grader, and then work in the evenings with 2 different sets of brothers (6 and 5 ; 8 and 5). In my evening work I sort of do it all; help with homework, help them with snacks, teach them self-help skills etc.
Lots of social education, which I thin is one of the hardest things to teach!
It definitely would be. I pretty much taught myself, and it's taken me the most part of nearly 30 years to figure it all out. It's good to know there are people out there to help kids to get through it ![]()
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aka. Vanilla (Aspies Central)
"If you're not actively involved in getting what you want, you don't really want it."
- Peter MC Williams
