It kinda annoyed me the way you went about this post.. It's like you're talking about your wife of 50 years dying or something..
You're 14, too young in my opinion to get into this sort of thing, and it's only a crush, and you'll get over it.
I didn't find that post upsetting at all, all it told me was some kid thinks it's the end of the world that crush didn't last.