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24 Feb 2014, 4:23 am

i was wondering is it my looks that turn away woman [img][800:1713]http://s26.postimg.org/89hzcxpc9/IMG_0228.jpg[/img]



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24 Feb 2014, 4:49 am

Well, just like many, you're not a 10, so perhaps, maybe?

I'm in the same boat though for sure, if not, worse than you.

Perhaps it's the height too, I dunno.

Seems like many guys these days are being struck by this phenomemon where they suddenly get the impression that they're hideous and creepy as f**k, it's a 2014 disease artificially set up by society becoming more and more male-unfriendly in general as the time passes.



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24 Feb 2014, 5:26 am

Nope, it's the fact that you have to ask strangers on the internet if you're attractive.


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24 Feb 2014, 5:31 am

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Nope, it's the fact that you have to ask strangers on the internet if you're attractive.


lol.

And to the op - I doubt it. If you have aspergers it's probably your social skills.



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24 Feb 2014, 6:56 am

You look average. Without the glasses and a minor makeover you could even be above average.

It's not your looks that scare women off.



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24 Feb 2014, 12:24 pm

What does the girl next to you on your avi think about it?



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24 Feb 2014, 2:43 pm

Uprising wrote:
Well, just like many, you're not a 10, so perhaps, maybe?

I'm in the same boat though for sure, if not, worse than you.

Perhaps it's the height too, I dunno.

Seems like many guys these days are being struck by this phenomemon where they suddenly get the impression that they're hideous and creepy as f**k, it's a 2014 disease artificially set up by society becoming more and more male-unfriendly in general as the time passes.


I've noticed this, too. A lot of them look like everyday people to me.



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24 Feb 2014, 2:56 pm

Nope, it's not your looks. You're not a bad looking guy. I've certainly been with worse. But you look a bit 'off'. The shirt buttoned to the top. The tension you carry.

You're far too young for me to find you attractive in any way (i think you must be closer to my son's age than to mine, which is always a turn-off for me) - but I can see you're not bad looking - and with a different energy you could be very attractive to quite a few women.



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24 Feb 2014, 3:24 pm

Never button the top button of a polo shirt. It's just one of those things you don't do.

Your not fat or anything so that's a plus.



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24 Feb 2014, 5:01 pm

Find a good optician and listen to their advice regarding lightweight lenses and suitable frames, apart from that you're good to go.


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24 Feb 2014, 9:26 pm

You're a good-looking guy, but how difficult is it for you to interact with the opposite gender?


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25 Feb 2014, 1:00 am

886 wrote:
Nope, it's the fact that you have to ask strangers on the internet if you're attractive.


+ 1

Confidence is attractive to women. At least I assume it is, as I'm not exactly gorgeous or rich. OP looks like a perfectly normal male human.

Mind you, there are other things that can scare away women that we might not be able to discern from the photograph. You don't brush your teeth with garlic / urine or anything strange like that, do you?



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25 Feb 2014, 2:31 am

Also if you're short and skinny that turns people off too. If you're an average dude you have to try and make some other factors about yourself above average.



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26 Feb 2014, 12:18 am

hale_bopp wrote:
886 wrote:
Nope, it's the fact that you have to ask strangers on the internet if you're attractive.


lol.

And to the op - I doubt it. If you have aspergers it's probably your social skills.

Males and females have separate packs because they feel awkward around each other so no, it's not the social skills. I do hope they don't diagnose this way.



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26 Feb 2014, 12:26 am

You look fine, much may have to do with your social skills, or that if you don't try and get to know women you will never know, because most women expects men to approach them, not the other way around. which is a bummer because men have to deal with all the rejection when their not interested.

Try watching your body language, for years I couldnt understand why people treated me the way they did, when much of it was because of body language, I was just giving off the wrong vibes without realizing it.

Although some women find a shy guy cute, most don't, they like men to be vary confident, if your not they friend zone you.