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09 Mar 2014, 10:30 pm

Last Wednesday my crush and I revealed our mutual attraction via ok cupid. He has not officially asked me out and rarely answers my texts( I am limiting them) . However, he did ask what my spring break plans were. We did not talk one on one during a meetup we both went to. Is there any way for me to get out of the limbo? Or should I bite the bullet and wait?



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09 Mar 2014, 10:34 pm

Guy and I are both aspies



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09 Mar 2014, 10:40 pm

I'd say stop texting him



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09 Mar 2014, 10:46 pm

rocknrollslc wrote:
I'd say stop texting him


I'll lay off the texting. Thank you for the advice.



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10 Mar 2014, 11:33 am

The part of my that had ADD irrationally worries that he changed his mind. I think I will bite the bullet and wait. What will happen will happen.



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10 Mar 2014, 4:37 pm

Try not to stress out...... you're into him, he's into you - as you say, what will happen will happen....... don't stay in limbo too long! Hang out on WP instead. Just my two cents



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10 Mar 2014, 5:21 pm

rocknrollslc wrote:
Try not to stress out...... you're into him, he's into you - as you say, what will happen will happen....... don't stay in limbo too long! Hang out on WP instead. Just my two cents


Thank you!



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10 Mar 2014, 5:34 pm

You're welcome!