So there's a guy I like, who's NT.
We'll go for a month texting once or twice a week
that we should get together, but actually hang out maybe
only once a month out of all that (he and I both get very busy).
When we are together though, I think we really click, and I'd
like a relationship.
Now, I really want to just be direct and ask him,
"Do we go for month-long periods of not seeing each other
because you're actually not interested in me; or are you
really just busy and do like me--in which case, can we take it to
the next level?"
But I get the feeling that that's too direct.
Any advice or insights? I'm terrible at reading these sorts
of situations.
If I had it my way, people would just say what they're really
thinking and we wouldn't have to deal with all this duplicitous nonsense;
but I've learned the hard way that most of the time the world
does not like to hear what you truly think, even when it's good.