seamie_irl wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I can look people in the eyes alright but I am not good at metering eye contact to the point where it creeps people out.
I'm not sure I get your point, 'auntblabby'. Perhaps you might elaborate?
sorry I wasn't more clear- IOW, when I look at people [or they look at me] I don't get that psychic "eyes boring holes into me" feeling that a lot of aspies have described, maybe it is due to my general [psychic] cluelessness in general, IOW people can look at me and unless I see them looking at me I won't have a clue. but in terms of looking back at people I can't appropriately judge how much eye contact to make so either they think my eyes are "shifty" or they think I'm boring a hole through their head. does that make sense to you?