ZanneMarie wrote:
Well, it can be avoiding eye contact or inappropriate eye contact. I try to make myself look then find myself staring because I go off into my head. Other people get upset with that. I often don't look into their eyes. If I'm not sure why I'm talking to someone, I notice I look away and don't want to look back. Sometimes I'm just not sure how I'm supposed to look at them or what their eyes are supposed to be telling me. I find myself staring at those time as well. It's like I'm looking for the answer to what their eyes are telling me. Very disconcerting.
I wonder if you can go back and forth if you are on the spectrum, like being hypersensitive to some things and hyposensitive to others.
It is interesting, for sure. I am most unhappy if strangers try and make eye contact with me first, and tend to glare at them when they do. I have often caught myseld staring at people but without seeing them, if that makes sense...adn same thing with eyes in a way. I will look at the eyes, but not really register them...like they are just a blank body part, lol. A friend told me I tend to look away sharply sometimes when I have made eye contact etc.