Correct response when a girl complements another girl?

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23 Jun 2014, 8:43 am

how would you react if one girl is pointing out that there is another girl that is beautiful? It did happen for me twice this week and in one of the cases was the other girl in the same room (within hearing distance) and the comment was ment for me



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23 Jun 2014, 9:04 am

I would say thanks.



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24 Jun 2014, 9:53 pm

Girl who's speaking wants you to tell her she's better looking than the girl about whom she's speaking. Or, at the very least, she wants to hear that you are not attracted to that girl. Unless she is good friends with the other girl, in which case she's probably been sent by that girl to subtley determine whether you're interested in her.



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25 Jun 2014, 9:47 pm

I don't think you have to do anything to be honest. You can give your opinion, or not give it. Same thing as if a girl is complimenting a good looking guy.

Tho i'm probably incredibly awkward with that type of stuff also.



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26 Jun 2014, 3:00 am

If the girl who says that is with you, and straight, then point out something about the girl she mentioned that's a flaw. "Yeah, she's good looking and all but she's got cankles" or whatever. Or if you can't find a flaw in her looks simply say "Yeah but she looks like a real b***h!" That always works. If she's with you or hanging out with you, then she's saying that in a fishing for compliments kinda way. If she does it, you should make it a point to compliment your girl more often. Unless you don't want a girl thats emotionally high maintenance, then say something instead like "Yeah she is. Hang on a second" and go ask the other girl for her number. ;-)


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26 Jun 2014, 5:45 pm

All you need to say is "thank you". Calling someone beautiful doesn't have to be a sexual advance.



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26 Jun 2014, 7:37 pm

Absolutely true!


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27 Jun 2014, 2:47 am

I'd just smile and say thanks, regardless of her true motives for saying it


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